What's so particular about dates?

The key point of setting the wedding date is that both parents discuss the auspicious day, decide the auspicious day as soon as possible, and respect the domestic traditional customs.

1. Both parents discuss and choose an auspicious day.

Marriage is not only about two people, but also about two families. Therefore, when choosing a wedding date, we must respect the opinions of both parents and choose a wedding date with them.

2. Decide the auspicious day for getting married as soon as possible.

Getting married is a happy and complicated thing, and there are big and small things to do in preparing for the wedding. Therefore, we should decide the auspicious day of marriage as soon as possible and strive to leave enough time to prepare for the wedding.

3. Respect domestic traditional customs.

Since ancient times, there have been many customs about marriage in China, and there are also many stresses about choosing a date to get married. For example, it is better to leap in a leap year and leap in a month, avoiding the days when people collide with new people and are incompatible with their animals, avoiding Tomb-Sweeping Day in March, Mid-Autumn Festival in July and Double Ninth Festival in September, and avoiding the evil days of the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month. For these traditional customs, although you don't need to be superstitious, you can also arrange the date reasonably in respect of traditional customs in combination with these stresses.

Taboos on the wedding day

1, it is best not to be a fan on the wedding day.

Fan is homophonic with "three", and it is only used in summer. It is rude to throw it away in autumn, so no matter how hot it is on the wedding day, it is best not to fan it.

2. Don't step on the threshold.

Newcomers should not step on the threshold when entering or leaving the house, but must cross it to avoid bad luck.

The bride had to cry when she left home.

The bride cries when she leaves home. On the one hand, she is reluctant to part with her family. On the other hand, the more she cries, the more prosperous her family will be.

Aunt and sister-in-law can't pick up relatives with them.

Gu homophonic "lonely" and sister-in-law homophonic "sweep" are unlucky words, so it is best not to choose husband and wife's aunt and sister-in-law when choosing relatives.