Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Lucky day inquiry - Is there an old saying that going out is poverty? Is it true that a woman will be poor when she menstruates on her wedding day?

Is there an old saying that going out is poverty? Is it true that a woman will be poor when she menstruates on her wedding day?

Serious superstition.

1. Avoid the bride's menstrual period: Because the big day is usually scheduled by the family very early, they don't know and can't accurately calculate the bride's menstrual period, so that the wedding date and menstrual period meet, which makes a couple embarrassed, or it is difficult to enjoy the wedding night and dare not act; Either willy-nilly, deliberately "hitting the red" will inevitably affect health. Therefore, when choosing the date, relatives at home should take the initiative to seek the opinions of the new couple, and the future bride should not be embarrassed. Everyone should plan ahead, avoid the bride's menstrual period, and don't just consider choosing "auspicious day". If the wedding date cannot be changed for various reasons and coincides with the menstrual period, the bride can choose any one of the following drugs to postpone the menstrual period: ① Oral progesterone tablets 4-8 mg, once a day/kloc-0, for 5-7 days; ② Oral norethindrone (Fukang tablets), 1 time, daily 1 time for 5-7 days; ③ Take megestrol acetate (Funing tablets) orally, 4-8 mg/kloc-0 times a day for 5-7 days. All three are synthetic progestogens, which can delay the shedding of endometrium and the beginning of menstruation. A few days after stopping the drug, the endometrium fell off due to the loss of progesterone support, and menstruation came. The bride can decide the number of days to take medicine according to the specific wedding date. If the above oral drugs are not available, progesterone can also be injected to delay menstrual cramps, 10 mg per day for 3 consecutive days. Generally, menstrual cramps appear about 7 days after drug withdrawal. No matter whether it is taken orally or injected, because of the small dose and short use time, the drug will be excreted quickly after stopping taking the drug, so it will not affect the pregnant embryo. It should be noted that these methods are only used in emergencies, such as weddings, or participating in sports competitions, and should not be used at ordinary times to avoid exogenous hormones interfering with women's normal menstrual cycle. Maybe some people think that the groom can have sex during the menstrual period by using condoms or coitus interruptus? In fact, this idea is naive and impossible. Men and women who have sex during menstruation, whether using condoms or coitus interruptus, will still make the woman's pelvic cavity more congested during sexual excitement, and the uterus will still strengthen its contraction during orgasm, leading to prolonged menstruation and irregular menstruation; Once menstruation returns to the abdominal cavity, endometriosis will occur, leading to infertility. During menstrual sexual intercourse, because the endometrium falls off and there are wounds in the uterus, it is easy to cause secondary infection. Therefore, if the wedding day can't avoid the menstrual period, and it's too late to take medicine, then the newlyweds should overcome their feelings with reason, absolutely forbid sexual intercourse, and don't "tackle key problems and break the rules" for the time being. In particular, the groom should resolutely control his impulses, and not just leave lifelong regrets for the sake of temporary pleasure. Of course, in the face of the groom's excitement, the bride can also take other compensation methods to help the groom vent his sexual needs. 2. Generally, the first half of a woman's menstrual cycle, that is, within 5- 14 days after menstruation, can be chosen as the wedding day. At this time, women have strong estrogen secretion and sexual desire, and it is easy to reach the climax of newlywed sexual intercourse. And there are nearly 20 days before the next menstruation, which is convenient for honeymoon and sexual enjoyment. You shouldn't choose the wedding date in a hurry. A week after the wedding preparations are completed, arrange a new house, so that both men and women can recover from the fatigue of preparing for the wedding, so as not to be too tired and affect the quality of wedding life. At the same time, both men and women should pay attention to their health before marriage to avoid getting sick. There should be enough time to prepare for the wedding. Excessive stress and fatigue can lead to the occurrence or aggravation of diseases. I've seen people enter the ward as soon as they entered the bridal chamber. That's the reason. The best season to choose is around the National Day at the turn of summer and autumn, or around May Day. The climate is neither too hot nor too cold, and men and women are in a period of vigorous gonadal secretion. They don't have many clothes and move neatly, which is not only conducive to wearing wedding dresses, but also convenient for holding pillows. Traveling after marriage is also very cool and comfortable.