What words will make you unlucky?

There are often netizens who come to email to ask the author the following things, which I believe many have encountered.

It is said that it is unlucky to get married in this animal year. At that time, I knew it was exquisite, but I got married without hesitation, and the result was divorce.

A colleague won 2000 yuan in the lottery, and everyone invited her to treat her. She said no, and she collapsed three days later.

I went to the temple with my sister-in-law, who burned incense and worshipped Buddha. When I saw her kneeling, I laughed at her and said that she really believed it. As a result, I didn't walk out of the temple for a few steps, so I knelt down flat and couldn't stand up. Finally, my sister-in-law helped him up.

My friend's aunt also went to the temple and laughed at Maitreya when she saw him. At home, her own * * * began to hurt, and both Chinese medicine and western medicine could not diagnose it. So she found a big fairy and did it according to the instructions, and it will be fine soon.

Today, my family praised me for being okay and not sick recently, but I will be sick in three days.

Wait a minute.

There are countless examples of this. There is a saying that "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you", and there is another saying called "crow's mouth", which means that good things don't go out and bad things come true! It is also used to describe that someone's mouth is particularly smelly, and sometimes it is also used to describe that someone's mouth is particularly hateful. Good words are invalid and bad words are effective.

There was once a story that a farmer A held a wedding and invited the villagers to have dinner to celebrate. During the dinner, an old leader B said to him, "It's too dangerous for you to pile all the forage for cattle in the kitchen, it will burn!" " A was furious: "My family has always put it like this, so don't worry about it!"

The weather was particularly dry this winter. The wind blew the flames from the stove onto the haystack, and a fire broke out. With the help of the villagers, the fire was quickly put out. Although there was a loss, fortunately, the house was saved. In order to thank everyone for their help, A set up a banquet again. When pushing a cup for a change, a neighbor accidentally mentioned B. If you had accepted B's reminder last time, the fire wouldn't have happened. The person you should thank most is B.A. who regrets it very much. He brought a generous gift to B's house to thank him.

As can be seen from the above examples, China people are a nation with strong psychology of "pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages", and they pay attention to "paying lip service" in everything. Give good news to leading friends, not bad news, choose auspicious days for major events, and choose numbers of 6, 8 and 9 for mobile phones. Not only do you not say "unlucky words", but you also don't allow others to say "unlucky words" to yourself. Once someone reminds you that something may have bad consequences, immediately reprimand: crow mouth, can't you say something nice? Over time, people have formed a habit of ignoring unfavorable hidden dangers when they see them; Because no one wants to touch the "bad head" and be the "crow mouth" in people's eyes. The direct consequence of this is to make many hidden dangers that could have been eliminated develop into distressing tragedies!

In daily life, we often hear that one spouse is unlucky after a quarrel. It is often unlucky for someone to be reviled. Then, in daily life, what words can't be said and it's unlucky? Today we will discuss it from the perspective of folklore.

1. The Power of an Unbreakable Tongue This chapter is recorded in Romance of the Three Kingdoms, one of the four classical novels: During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang sent an envoy to Soochow to argue with Confucianism, and persuaded Sun Quan and Zhou Yulian to resist Cao Cao and defeated Cao Cao in Chibi. Therefore, there is a statement about Zhuge Liang. The sages said, "A three-inch tongue is better than a million teachers." . Cantonese Opera Guan Hanqing Scene 8: "I hope you can write more new words and scripts, and you will be better than his millions of soldiers." It can be seen that words and speeches have caused great deterrence and harm.

Second, it is unlucky to say anything in life. 1. If you complain, you can't say "Stop it". This line can often be seen and heard in Buddhist Zen language, which is about subtle Zen language and secrets. Complaining is usually an extremely selfish factor, representing cynicism. The world is evil and I am selfish. At the same time, complaining about your aura will also be accumulated by bad luck. Naturally, it is easy to feel that everything is difficult, paying more and getting less, and doing things will be hindered.

You can't say negative words when you are angry. If you complain, it is very unlucky. Because negative words often mean that you don't try your best, despite difficulties, so you give up halfway and increase more bad luck and bad luck. So don't say this often, it will be unlucky to say too much.

3. words that harm people can't be said to be harmful. It is undoubtedly a combination of swearing and swearing. In folklore, people who curse and hurt people all day can't be lucky, because your mind is full of things that destroy people. How can you be lucky? It's very bad luck to bring others down and worry about revenge, which makes you nervous every day.

4. Be moderate when bragging.