It's not cheating, it's not domestic violence that kills marriage.

The wrong marriage is tragic. A few days ago, the Ministry of Civil Affairs released a brand-new marriage Internet big data: 20 19 applied for marriage registration in China * * * 947. Register 4 15. Should unhealthy marriages be abandoned? Let's follow Bian Xiao to see why Chen Jiarizhu is not suitable for marriage.

Although the brand-new divorce rate in China has not yet come out, the divorce rate in China has been rising for a long time in recent ten years.

Moreover, in recent years, among the divorce disputes all over the country, 2 to 7 years after marriage is the most frequent period of marriage breakdown, and there are 73 cases clearly put forward by the woman.

Among the reasons for the breakdown of marriage, emotional disharmony reached nearly 80%.

Why Chen Jiarizhu is not conducive to marriage? I believe that this kind of lady who explicitly filed for divorce because of emotional disharmony was happy to join hands with the other half into the lofty hall of marriage with a happy expectation of marriage and a full affection for the other half.

But in just two years, the sweetness of marriage disappeared silently.

After that, these emotional disharmonies are probably the feelings and expectations when they get married. The wrong marriage is tragic and eventually swallowed up by the odds and ends in the marriage.

It turns out that in daily life, it is the unhappy knife called "trivial things of life" that kills marriage.

At the beginning of the movie, Xu zhēng's husband walked into the elevator hall of the residential module. As the elevator car slowly rose, he said:

"Every minute from today, I still know what will happen: she (wife) has cooked, the same miscellaneous sauce noodles, the same boring TV series; Others say that the seven-year itch. I never itch. The problem depends on it? "

The problem is that once a person reaches middle age, the fragmentation, boredom and incompatibility of daily life are enough to crush a person's belief in marriage.

Which night, he finally asked his wife for a divorce?

"Give me a reason for divorce." Wife.

"You always wear this blue-purple sweater at home. You always wear this blue-purple sweater. I hate blue-purple, you know;

The cup for brushing teeth and gargling should be placed on the second floor of the shelf, and even a seal can't be bad;

Whitening toothpaste must be squeezed from bottom to top, so what's wrong with me squeezing in the middle?

Four times a week: miscellaneous sauce noodles, TV series, TV series, miscellaneous sauce noodles;

And when eating noodles, can you keep playing without eating some fresh noodles? "

"Is this the reason?" Wife can't believe it.

Obviously, it's not empathy, cheating, violence, or cold domestic violence.

This "irrelevant" reason, no matter which one you take out, is ridiculous because it wants to divorce.

However, resentment will accumulate.

This little thing of 7788, after a period of time, and then through human production and processing, finally one day, you think that marriage has gone bad.

I like chewing gum for a long time. I feel tired and want to vomit.

In the past, there was an article that was discussed a lot in the circle of presiding judges. The content was called "On the Wonderful Flowers in Court and Marriage". The author of the whole article is a civil affairs judge of the rural grassroots people's court.

She wrote:

"Basically everyone told me that in this era, everyone's divorce is so amazing?

You are wrong. In fact, most marriages are lost in absurdity and triviality far beyond your imagination. "

The original text lists many divorce reasons that are difficult to meet in movies: screaming in horror, being a big coffee, not being as good as a cat, "blaming you for being beautiful", being entangled, being a baby boy, and a beautiful day.

This reason, no matter how strange and funny it is for the monitor, is really accurate and true for the couple who are in it. They are slowly enjoying the vitality of marriage.

Every little story is really taking shape, and it leads to the result in a chicken feather.

Unhealthy marriage should be abandoned, which is the last straw to crush "marriage" Only the defendant understands the unbearable weight.