? Marry a happy tree on an auspicious day.

The new year has begun, and many people choose to get married in June 20 14. Especially on 2014,65438 10/4, many people will get married, because the homonym is "love you all your life". But what is the auspicious day for 20 14 and 1 to get married? Marriage is a great event in our life. Choosing an auspicious day to plant your own happiness tree is a good start. The following calendar numbers 9, 1 1, 15, 19, 20, 23, 3 1 are auspicious wedding days chosen by the prospective couple for reference.

1, date of marriage

In ancient times, wedding was called "faint ceremony", which is one of the essences of traditional culture. Why is it called "faint" instead of "marriage"? The ancients thought dusk was auspicious, so they got married at dusk, hence the name. Judging from the cultural inheritance of marriage customs, the wedding at dusk follows the ancient concept of "the unity of heaven and man". There are many different customs in the south and the north of China. For example, northerners choose the morning for their wedding, and the wedding will end at noon. However, in the south, the situation is different. For example, in Shanghai, the wedding starts after work, which is in line with the original intention of "faint ceremony" and convenient for friends attending the wedding to arrange time.

2. The faint ceremony of husband and wife combination

The etiquette of combining husband and wife is called "faint ceremony". Faint ceremony is one of the five ceremonies. Five courtship rituals refer to five courtship rituals of princes formed in the Western Zhou Dynasty, namely, auspicious ceremony, fierce ceremony, military ceremony, guest ceremony and Jia ceremony. It once perished in the Spring and Autumn Period, which is what Confucius said: "Rites collapse and music breaks down".

3. Celebrating gifts

Gifts are the etiquette of harmonious interpersonal relationships, communication and contact feelings. The main contents of the gift include: the gift of diet; Wedding and coronation ceremonies; Guest shooting ceremony; Yan Yan's gift; He Qingzhi's gift.

4. The source of marriage

In ancient times, the faint ceremony was another milestone in life after the crown ceremony for men and the gift for women. I believe everyone has heard of the expression "knot hair", which is related to the coronation ceremony of men and the gift of women. In ancient times, when getting married, men and women should sit side by side with their hair tied in a bun, so it refers to marriage. Also known as wife, it usually refers to Yuan Pei's wife.

This ceremony also reflects the ancient people's attention to the "first time". In feudal times, polygamy was a respect for the original husband and wife. Later, this custom gradually disappeared, but the word "knot" was retained.