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How to write documents to worship godmother

Guangdong: Guangdong (including Hong Kong and Macao) is called Shang Qi, and the relationship between parents and friends is called "Chyi Chin family". Choose a good auspicious day, parents prepare incense sticks and a pig's head for their children, and some gifts. After dressing the children, take them to their homes in Ye Qi (Yi Fu) and Ma Qi (Mu Yi). When the auspicious moment comes, they will light incense sticks, pray to the gods and invite the future Ye Qi and Ma Qi to sit at the dinner table. The children will kneel and kowtow to Ye Qi and Ma Qi and offer tea. The baby was held by its mother and bowed to Ye Qi and Ma Qi. Then, Master Qi and Mother Qi will give Qi Zi (sister son) or Qi Zi (sister daughter) a bonus (red envelope) and invite Qi Zi or Qi Zi to dinner with new bowls, chopsticks and spoons, symbolizing the responsibility of raising Qi Zi's children. Some parents will give their children gold bowls, chopsticks and spoons to show their solemnity. On holidays, children should visit and give gifts, and parents should be filial after death [10]. Sichuan: Tongjiang Town, Deyang, Sichuan will dress up their young children during the local festival "Li Huahui". Please wait for the right person to come under the plum tree with their elders, and then go forward and ask if this person is willing to get married. If the other party agrees, the children will kowtow to this person, which is called a gift of worship, and worship this person as michel platini or godmother. Michel platini or godmother will be invited to dinner, michel platini or godmother will give their adopted children some money, and some will give them nicknames [1 1]. Shaanxi: After the baby's full moon, parents shave and change clothes for the baby, and then parents or grandparents will take the baby out for a "chance encounter" to make friends with the first adult they meet. When you meet an adult male, you worship him as your godmother (michel platini), and adult women worship him as their godmother; Old men are worshipped as godfathers (grandfathers) and old women as godmothers (grandmothers). Then please visit each other, prepare gifts three days later and hold the baby at home. The worshippers served wine and gave the baby clothes and hats. Since then, the two families have become in-laws. Some people you meet are random, but in most cases, friends or celebrities are arranged in advance and become the first people to "meet". Henan: The customs in Zhengzhou, Kaifeng and hua county are similar to those in Shaanxi, and they are called "touching surnames". The difference is that in the morning after the baby is born, the father will take the baby out to touch the surname. The first person he meets, regardless of gender and age, his father will kowtow to him or her, explain the reasons and ask the other person to give the child a nickname. If you want to officially consider yourself a godparent, the person you meet will give your child a gift. People who are unmarried or childless in Huaxian County, or those who have young sons, dare not adopt their sons, thinking that they will lose their own sons if they recognize their adopted sons, that is, "the adopted sons are wet." One of the ways of recognizing parents in Xingyang is similar to that in Sichuan, Shaanxi and Changdao County, Shandong Province, and is called "Ben surname". When the child is full moon or born more than 100 days, the first person parents meet with the child at sunrise is husband and wife. The other is more common in baby boys. The family of the baby boy will lock the door on his nose. At the full moon, whoever comes to his house first is asked to unlock the lock, and the person who unlocks the lock is regarded as an adoptive parent. Every year when a child goes to the adoptive parents' house on his birthday, the adoptive mother will send a lock, one for each year, until 12 years old. These days, dry parents want to buy clothes for their dry children, which is called "lock", indicating a strong relationship, and then take off the lock, which is called "unlocking" In the future, every major festival, wedding, funeral and wedding, the two dry relatives will be the host. In Zhoukou area, people whose surnames are Liu (homophonic "Liu") or Cheng (homophonic "Cheng") are adopted parents, meaning "Liu" but not going, "Cheng" but not dying. After that, a similar symbolic birth ceremony will be held. The foster mother will first make a pair of big open-backed pants so that the adopted son can put them on and get out of the crotch. The custom of practicing martial arts is to "touch relatives", which is similar to that in Sichuan, Shaanxi and Changdao County, Shandong Province. The father went out with the child in his arms. If the first person he meets has many children, he (she) is regarded as the godmother (michel platini) or adoptive mother of the children, while if the other person has few children, he (she) is introduced to a family with many children, so that the children can recognize their parents. Beijing: Beijingers think that adopting their own children will be bad for their own children, so they generally only accept the children of close friends as adopted children. The two sides held a friendship ceremony on auspicious day. The biological parents should hold a banquet, prepare gifts for their children, and pay tribute to michel platini and dopted mother. The gifts must include hats for michel platini, shoes for dopted mother, and cloth. The gifts that michel platini and godmother give their adopted sons and daughters must include chopsticks and a longevity lock. Because it is considered unlucky to break chopsticks, they are mostly made of materials that are not easy to break, such as wood and metal. Gifts for adopted children include clothes, shoes and socks, hats, bibs and stomachs. After three festivals and two birthdays every year, families with godchildren will give gifts to michel platini and godmother, and michel platini and godmother will also give gifts back. Because of the heavy cost, usually only wealthy families will do this. Shandong: The customs in Changdao County and Mengyin County are similar to those in Sichuan and Shaanxi. In Long Island County, when his father went out with his child in his arms, the first adult man he saw was considered to be michel platini. In Mengyin County, when you go out and meet the first person with a physical surname, no matter men, women and children, you will think you are a godmother. Unmarried people are temporarily called uncles and aunts, and when they get married, they will be renamed as michel platini or adoptive mother. In Jiaoxian, the parents of children should buy a pair of trousers and a leg strap (now changed to two belts) for their adoptive mother. Foster parents should dress their children and put needles (homophonic with "truth") and green onions (homophonic with "cong") to show sincerity and wish their children wisdom. In jiaozi, adopted children can't eat at home for three years, and adopted parents will wrap jiaozi for the adopted children with new bowls and chopsticks. In Linqu, foster mothers must have many children according to the zodiac. During the ceremony, the foster mother wore a fat crotch made by her child's family, the parents of the child wrote articles in red cloth, burned incense and handed in documents, and the child leaked out of the crotch of the foster mother, indicating that it was her own, and then lined up with the foster mother's children. Jiaodong area should first make a pair of fat open-crotch pants for the foster mother, let the child pass through the crotch, which symbolizes that the child is born to the foster mother, and then let the child and the foster mother's child line up together. In Taian area, people surnamed Liu are often asked to adopt their mothers. This is because "Liu" and "Liu" are homophonic, and they think it can keep the children. Rongcheng] The foster mother was recognized by the adopted son who bit off the button on the skirt, symbolizing the biological child who ate the foster mother's milk. The adoptive mother will give clothes as gifts to her adopted son. Both parents call each other "in-laws". The adopted children call the couple "michel platini" and "dopted mother", and they call each other brothers and sisters. In Haiyang, there are also those who choose romantic women as foster mothers [12]. Yi people: It is similar to Sichuan, Shaanxi and Changdao County in Shandong, and it is called "name collision". Before the child is one year old, parents choose an auspicious day to take the child to the path and build a small bridge with branches in the middle of the road, so that the child can worship the first person crossing the bridge as michel platini and his godmother; If the first person you meet is a child, let the child worship his parents as michel platini and godmother. People who are met can't refuse to make friends. The ceremony was held on the spot. Michel platini and godmother were served food and wine, and michel platini or godmother gave the child a nickname. Gifts must be given to the adopted child, and then the child must be carried across the bridge three times, indicating that the child will get rid of the entanglement of the disease from now on. I will visit the children's home again and keep in touch with them in the future. Tujia: A ritual for Tujia people to recognize their godmother is that children kowtow to adults three times, and then call each other michel platini and godmother. For young or particularly delicate children, the ceremony is similar to that in Jiaodong, Shandong. Dopted mother will put on a particularly fat red trousers during the ceremony, sit on the kang and leak the child out of her crotch. Then dopted mother gives the child a long life lock and gives the baby a name. After that, the children will eat with the bowls and chopsticks given by michel platini and dopted mother, that is to say, the children are their children and eat their family's meals.