What are the three great happy events in ancient times?

1, to be the first time: many people study hard for years in the cold window just to get an official position and change their destiny, which is the first happy event in life.

2, wedding night: choose a good day before marriage, and entertain relatives and friends when getting married. People attach great importance to this and regard it as the second happy event in life.

3, meet an old friend in another country: ancient traffic was extremely inconvenient, and the wanderer went out for many years before going home once. When you meet an old friend in a foreign country, you will be excited, just like seeing your family, which is regarded as the third happy event in life.