What should a girl prepare before getting married?

Nowadays, couples usually decide their honeymoon together, but influenced by tradition, the groom still undertakes most of the work of honeymoon planning and dating, which makes the bride very satisfied.

About assisting the bride

As long as the groom is willing, he can help the bride do all kinds of things besides his own work. The most important thing is that the groom must support and understand the bride.

Determination of "auspicious day"

Choosing when to get married is something that a couple and their parents attach great importance to. In today's society, even-numbered days are popular as auspicious days, such as February 2nd and August 8th. It is believed that the meaning of being in pairs indicates that the husband and wife will love each other and grow old together after marriage, and the homonym of "eight" is "hair", which is also an expectation for future life. Choosing "auspicious day" should seek the opinions of both parents and make arrangements from a scientific point of view.

First, we should consider the reality of both sides' work and study. If one party is studying in his spare time, avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day" when good news comes.

Second, we should consider the reality of both families. Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that both elderly people have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.

Third, we should consider the physical condition of both sides. If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time, and then consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the woman's opinion.

Fourth, we should consider the arrangements of all parties. If the wedding date is unified with holidays, it may be wise. The advantages of doing this are: deep memory; Newly married people put on festive clothes to add interest; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home. However, there are many new people who get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.

Wedding planning scheme

Modern people's social life is busy, and many newcomers choose to hold wedding banquets in hotels, which not only reduces the burden, but also leaves a good impression. It is a beautiful thing in the world to choose to walk the red carpet hand in hand and spend a lifetime with the person you love, and a delicate and romantic wedding banquet is the dream of most newcomers. However, the wedding banquet is an important activity for both families to participate in, which requires planning and consultation in advance.

Five-star wedding banquet

Choose a five-star hotel for a lifetime event? Although the cost is not low, it can make people's dreams come true. On the day when you become a new person, you will really enjoy supreme care and admiration like a prince and princess. The focus of a five-star wedding banquet is "all-round arrangement", with many benefits, such as providing master of ceremonies, wedding planning, free honeymoon suite and so on. Of course, the dishes and services at the wedding reception are first-class enough to make the host and guest happy.

Prom dinner

Young people have new ideas and extraordinary energy, and they don't like to worship heaven and earth in a big way. Many people like to hold dances and offer carnival-like blessings to the wedding together with the guests. This kind of dinner is very foreign, elegant and casual, and the catering method is mostly self-help. When everyone is full, they will release music, sing and dance lightly and have fun.

Afternoon tea lunch

The wedding reception doesn't have to be after the lights are turned on. It's not bad to choose a warm afternoon in a western way! It is a very relaxing way to prepare some exquisite cakes, fruits and drinks, and get together to chat and get to know relatives and friends. Move the location to the outdoor lawn to make the atmosphere more active, design some small games or tell interesting stories about newlyweds. Newcomers will cut cakes, throw flowers and pour champagne into the champagne tower, which will push the banquet atmosphere to a climax.

Jiangjun restaurant wedding banquet

If the budget is not very high and you don't like ostentation and extravagance, then you can choose an economical restaurant to treat everyone to a wedding banquet. "Big Bowl Cheap" restaurant, although the venue is a bit crowded and lacks music and wine decoration, the distance between the host and the guest is closer.

Homemade wedding banquet

A banquet doesn't cost much, but it makes the guests eat and drink enough to go home. This kind of banquet has a typical "local" flavor, and everyone can be informal. Most of the invited guests are neighbors and relatives, and the scene is quite cordial and lively.

The details that make the wedding perfect

Getting married is undoubtedly an exciting day, but in order to prepare for the wedding, the bride and groom-to-be will be troubled by many things and often ignore many details. In order to make the wedding more perfect, please pay attention to the following matters:

Write a letter, write down your vision and dream of a new life, and keep it. Until the years to come. For example, on the 25th anniversary, open it together and see if your life is as you wish.

◇ Print a road map on the invitation so that guests can clearly know the correct location of the wedding.

Draw up a theme for your memory! Matching flowers is also very important. It should be noted that different flowers have different special meanings.

On the wedding day, you can spray your favorite perfume on yourself and your partner, which will make everyone energetic.

If the newlyweds like to break the tradition, draft a special speech for themselves!

◇ Prepare a bride's room in the venue, which can be used for the rest of the bride and also for storing jewelry and clothes.

The groom led his parents into the venue and sat down to show respect.

Ask friends or family members to edit photos or videos of your first meeting and play them in the venue.

Arrange the band to sing or play music on the spot.

Don't forget to surprise your parents on your honeymoon trip with your partner-send them a postcard!

Entertainment Skills of Newcomers at Wedding Reception

Wedding banquets are usually held after the wedding, and most of them have no certain procedures. Brides usually have to change 3-5 different dresses. Newcomers should pay attention to people coming and going, propose a toast, thank guests and send them off, so most of them can't eat. Pay attention to some social skills at the wedding reception!

First of all, understand the background of the guests.

It is very important to have a general understanding of the guests before the wedding reception, because there are both friends of the man and the woman, some of whom may not have been in contact before, so knowing the invitation list and photo album in advance can greatly avoid the embarrassing scene at the wedding reception.

Second, analyze the personality of the guests.

Some of the guests are extroverted and some are introverted, so they should be treated differently: extroverted friends should try to sit with introverted friends, and it is best to sit at the same table with acquaintances. Don't forget introverted friends at the wedding reception. Say hello to them when appropriate, but don't care too much about them, such as forcing a toast.

Third, handle the wine war skillfully.

At the wedding reception, the bride and groom will inevitably be toasted by relatives and friends, but they must be half-hearted. At first, they must not show that the cups are all dry, otherwise getting drunk will not only affect the whole wedding reception, but also ruin the "good thing" of the bridal chamber! Therefore, it is very important to get ready before the wedding reception and choose two best men and bridesmaids who can drink and speak eloquently as shields!

Fourth, work together to deal with entertainment programs.

In the later stage of the wedding banquet, there will be some small games as interludes for newcomers to Doby, which is the most difficult time in the past. At this time, couples should try to show generosity and exhaustion, and try to cater to them, even if there are some relatively three-level programs, such as kissing in public, otherwise the more you wriggle, the more people will boo. This season is a program, the sooner the better. As long as the husband and wife Qi Xin work together, the first "tribulation" in life will be completed, and the historical mission of the wedding banquet will be completed.

Matters needing attention in wedding banquet

The preparation before the wedding banquet is usually divided into three key points, namely, the reception at the door, the banquet occasion and the bride's room. In these three places, artists should pay more attention and keep close contact, so that the wedding on that day can be foolproof. Pay special attention to the bride's room, because the newlyweds will wear a lot of gold ornaments on that day, and often lose the replaced jewelry in crowded and noisy occasions.

Below, in view of the possible situation of general weddings, I propose several coping methods for inexperienced newcomers to prepare in advance.

(1) The staffing of the signature desk is very important. Generally speaking, there are about four people who receive gifts, two receive gifts and two write back cards. If the number of banquet tables is more than 20, it is best to increase the number of signature tables, so as to avoid the influx of guests and cause all the guests to gather at the signature table, which will not only lead to confusion in receiving gifts, but also make the recipients feel embarrassed.

(2) The receptionist should choose people familiar to the relatives and friends of the bride and groom, such as the friend contact of the groom, the friend contact of the bride, the relative contact of the groom and the relative contact of the bride. Let relatives and friends who come to the wedding banquet be greeted as soon as they enter the door, and they are not afraid of the cold.

The number of wedding banquets should be calculated one month in advance, so as not to temporarily add or remove tables, resulting in crowded or too empty wedding occasions. As more and more couples choose to get married in the hotel, whenever there is a fixed holiday or auspicious day, the hotel will be full and the table price will be higher. Therefore, it is not like a simple and grand notarization wedding; The wedding banquet is best held on ordinary days, which is easy to book a table and more cost-effective.