Do you need to choose a good day for your engagement?

Do you need to choose a good day for your engagement?

Engagement, also called betrothal, according to China folk custom, there is usually an engagement ceremony before marriage: signing an engagement, exchanging gifts, or setting up a matchmaker. Next, I will bring you an engagement. Do you need to choose a good day? I hope you like it!

Do you need to choose a good day for your engagement? 1 First of all, how to choose a good date for your engagement.

1, double spring: refers to the beginning and end of a year, two "beginning of spring" years. Spring is considered especially suitable for marriage, because it symbolizes the beginning of the year and the extension of branches and leaves.

2. leap month: refers to the year when there is a leap month in the lunar calendar, that is, * * * * has thirteen months. Because "leap" has the meaning of nourishing and harvesting, it symbolizes that both husband and wife have love and nourishing, loving and harmonious.

3. Double spring and leap month: "Double spring" and "leap month" are both suitable years for marriage. There are both "double spring" and "leap month" in a year, which naturally adds joy!

4, avoid one day, choose two days: it is best to be two months and two days, but it is not absolute. Our traditional habit is to like even numbers and ask for an engagement date of two months and two days. Because it means in pairs, we often choose two months and two days to pray for this beautiful wish, but this is not necessarily the case. It doesn't matter if you don't choose two months or two days, because every month has its own engagement date to choose from.

5. Unification of engagement date and holiday: The advantage of this is that relatives and friends will have time to attend the engagement ceremony. The wedding is just a festival with a warm atmosphere. The bride and groom will also get married. On the same day, they will share the joy of the festival with their relatives and friends, and at the same time, they will be infected by the festive atmosphere of the wedding and bless the wedding.

6, the eight characters push the auspicious day: usually we think that the genus does not match, that is, the eight characters do not match. In China's traditional eight characters, the animal sign is only one of them, so the disagreement of the animal sign only represents one of them, and the personal animal sign does not play a decisive role in the marriage of relatives. Analyze and understand the fate of the eight characters of both sides, see the harmony and disagreement from it, and choose an auspicious day from it. Both men and women will be combined with Shenwangjiri, with a happy marriage and prosperous children.

7. Choose to hold the wedding when both parties are healthy: If one party is unwell, forcibly holding the wedding will not only affect the harmony of the new life, but also aggravate the illness. It is necessary to avoid the busy period of study and work for both parties and arrange the wedding and honeymoon itinerary in advance. Discuss which day to hold the wedding, inform both parents in advance, and ensure that the elderly and relatives and friends at home can come to the wedding to create a festive and harmonious scene.

Do you need to choose an auspicious day for your engagement? 2 1. How to choose the engagement date? First of all, we must calculate the date of birth of both men and women, so as to calculate the most auspicious wedding date. This date is also called "auspicious day", which is bound to be the day when "noble people" appear. You can also look at the five elements suitable for marriage, and you must not conflict with the man's wealth star and the woman's official star.

2. Double spring leap month: This year is also very suitable for marriage, that is, there are two beginning of spring in a year, and then the "leap month" is added. It is said that this year is a happy year.

3. I would like to remind you that the first, seventh, ninth, fifteenth, seventeenth, twenty-third and twenty-fifth days of each month in the lunar calendar are ominous days in the church, and the marriage is extremely fierce. There are also two days at the end of the month, and several days are the same month and the same date. These days are not suitable, and you can't choose the birthday month of the bride and groom.

4. If you are going to calculate your own auspicious day, the young couple can use the strokes of surname and first name to calculate it, so that the month and date of the wedding can also be calculated. For example, Li Leihe chooses the date by name: (1) chooses the month of surname: Li 7, Han 12, 7+ 12= 19, and if there is no 65438+September, then19-655. (2) Naming date: Lei 13,22, 13+22=35. If there is no 35, then 35-3 1=4, that is, July 4th is a good day to get married.

5. Avoid one day and choose two days. In fact, the engagement date can be unified with holidays, which is also a good day. On such a day, more relatives and friends will come, because everyone is free at this time, so that your wedding will be more festive and you will receive more blessings.

6, how to choose the engagement date, you can write a "marriage table", everyone is not familiar with this meeting, in fact, "marriage table" is also based on the "eight characters" of the married person. It is also the day when Mr. "Yin Yang Shi" calculates while observing the sky.

7. This is the last point. The wedding must be held under the condition that both parties are healthy, which will not affect the harmony of new life, and if it is serious, it will aggravate the illness. We should also avoid learning from both sides. During the busy work period, if the couple has already discussed the wedding date, they must tell their parents in advance, so that the old people and relatives and friends at home can come to the wedding and enjoy the festive and harmonious scene.