How to treat yourself

This question is interesting. If you want to learn something from other people's experiences, I suggest you read some famous books or autobiographical books, which will help you. I feel that I should be an impulsive person. Perhaps with the growth of my age, I gradually learned to restrain my impulses and become smooth, because this social reality will slowly wear away the edges and corners of young people. Personally, I think as long as you do well, you don't need to care too much about other people's eyes, because life is your own, and life is your own life experience anyway. There is no need to ask yourself what to do, but to do what you want to do. I hope I can help you!