How to get married in Shaanxi?

1. What are the customs of Shaanxi people getting married?

People in the city usually pick up the bride from the new house at 9 am when they get married. When you arrive at the bride's house, you usually have to go through two doors, both of which are for red envelopes. Without a few big red envelopes, it is difficult to open the door of the bride's boudoir. When I meet a noisy close friend, I don't open the door for half an hour.

However, if the best man is thin, he can climb in through the glass window above the door (old houses only). When the family finds out, they will beat the best man around. If they can stand the beating, they will naturally succeed (not everyone can do it, but they must be close friends). This is only the first level. The second level is to find shoes. The bride's two shoes are hidden in different places for the groom to find. If you can't find them, give a red envelope to the person who hides the shoes (usually the unmarried relatives of the bride), and then the groom helps the bride put on the shoes.

The third level is to eat poached eggs that have been carefully processed. The groom's bowl is filled with all ingredients except vinegar, and some people also put mustard. The groom cries while eating, and he must finish eating, which means that the groom has to bear more burdens in his marriage life. It's not easy to marry a wife! The wedding banquet of Shaanxi people is at noon 12 and usually ends before 2 o'clock. Even if I have to go to work, I won't delay attending the wedding. Unlike Nanjing people who marry their wives in the morning and hold wedding banquets at night, it must be very tiring to be their bridesmaids and groomsmen. I wonder if they have red envelopes, hehe.

2. What is the way of marriage in Shaanxi?

My sister will go to my uncle's house next week. The man will propose marriage at the end of this year, and my aunt will prepare a dowry for my sister. Look at these customs. Generally speaking, the engagement ceremony is decided by both parents through consultation: engagement ring, gift money (also called engagement money), two red envelopes, two red belts and at least two sets of clothes (cotton-padded jacket, as the saying goes, the mother-in-law's coat will be handed down to the old), and the woman's family prepares a pair of new shoes (called husband's shoes) for the man.

According to different personal economic conditions, the deposit usually ranges from10001~100000 yuan. Small six samples include: six pounds of meat (full line), six fish (yellow croaker), six bottles of wine, six pounds of sugar (six boxes are ok), six pounds of vermicelli (tied with red line) and six pounds of snacks (six boxes are ok).

Each of the above items (except meat, as the saying goes, a daughter is the meat on her mother's body, and she is reluctant to give it to others) will generally be returned to the man's house by the woman's house, with two to four copies each. Jewelry should be selected in advance by the bride according to her personal preference.

It is reasonable to say that cotton-padded jacket and noodles can't be worn, but if you have reasonable and elegant attention, take it to the bottom of the box. Two red bags and two red belts.

On the day of engagement, the groom and his parents came to the bride's house with a dowry. The bride's family should prepare tea, snacks, fruits or dried fruits for entertainment. It's best to find a third party to preside over the engagement day, preferably someone with experience and good words to adjust the atmosphere.

Generally, the man's house will go to the woman's house before noon that day, and everyone will chat. At this time, the bride and groom will change their names to call their parents, offer tea to their parents and change their names. At this time, parents have prepared a red envelope, which is also a small change fee, which will be given to you separately, ranging from 600-2000 yuan according to the economic situation. The bride should book a hotel with a better grade and environment before family affairs, and invite the man to dinner.

After dinner, the man's family will return home before sunset. When the man leaves the woman's house, the woman should return two copies of each of the six samples sent by the man, except the meat.

And give the man a certain deposit. Xi 'an's custom of getting married? ! Actually, I don't know much about it, so I can only say something I know! If both sides are Xi people and not ethnic minorities, there will be less pressure! Let's talk about the woman in the evening, and the woman stays at her parents' house, waiting for the man's wedding the next day. When she is married, she must block the door and let the man pay. She shouldn't let a man marry a bride easily. It should be to let the groom know that it is not easy for this daughter-in-law to welcome home, and treat it well in the future! When you get married, you must hide the bride's shoes and find them out, so that the groom can take the bride away and not leave them at your front door. The groom should carry or hold them! When the man gets married, he should bring lotus root, pork, tobacco and alcohol to his family. After he marries the bride, he will salute his parents-in-law, and then show the bride and relatives and friends around the new house. After that, he will enter the canteen to hold a ceremony and eat. It is also said that engagement before marriage is inevitable, and it must be the case everywhere.

After the parents of both sides choose an auspicious day, the wedding will begin. The day before the wedding, the man's parents will go to the woman's house to give gifts.

It is said that a pair of lotus roots (symbolizing love in the cold, wishing the new couple eternal unity) are given to the future daughter-in-law. The next day, it was time for the wedding protagonist to play.

On that day, many doors were blocked, and both seeing off the bride and picking up the bride were in trouble. When the man takes the bride and knocks down the goalkeeper for the first time and blocks the door, then the second level is that the groom drinks sweet and sour soup and four bowls of soup with four flavors. The groom will not frown and drink (there is a custom, and naturally there are women to punish the groom's official). Then the bride and groom each eat a poached egg. Because the heroine is the object of protection for the bride, of course, she won't put salt or mustard in the poached eggs. Of course, everyone will give a blessing when eating. At this time, everyone will see the groom frowning and eating poached eggs with salt or mustard.

The second level is to find shoes. The bride will hide her red wedding shoes in advance. If the groom and his bride can't find shoes, they can't take our beautiful bride away. If they insist on taking it away, the bride's giver will lock the door.

For a man without a key, how can he marry a bride who is going to be a wife and not leave the bride's house? The groom's official finally found the shoes after a lot of hardships, so congratulations, you can take the bride home. The groom must always hold the bride from the front of the new bride's house to the wedding car.

Therefore, it is suggested that future grooms who want to get married in the future should exercise well early so as to have the strength to take their wives home! Haha ~ ~ ~) After arriving at the man's house, there is another procedure, that is, hanging the door curtain (this custom is found in Guanzhong Plain and mountainous areas in southern Shaanxi). If there is no curtain on the new door, I'm sorry, the groom has to hold the bride, and you can't go in until everyone hangs the curtain for you.

People who ask to hang curtains are not particular. Usually it's just for younger siblings to hang. Next is the wedding. It's the same everywhere. Although the content is different, it goes without saying that the forms of big links in the middle are similar.

Generally, it takes only one day to get married in Guanzhong area, especially in cities, which is simple and convenient. If you are in the countryside, you may have more manners.

(I attended my cousin's wedding and summed it up with Guanzhong characteristics. Then talk about some wedding customs in the mountainous areas of southern Shaanxi (mainly my hometown). ) [Transfer from the Iron Blood Community/] This marriage usually takes three or four days.

These three or four days have their own names. The first day is the time of the woman's home.

The woman's family should prepare a banquet and invite relatives and friends. This kind of banquet is called "Huayuanjiu", which means that women marry women.

During the dinner, the woman's parents and relatives and friends drew a big red face with red inkpad, which made a lot of noise. Of course, everyone's blessing and rectification are just for fun. Naturally, the woman's parents will not be angry. That night, it was the woman's parents and the "manager" (relatives or friends who know customs and wedding etiquette) who discussed the matters needing attention in getting married the next day.

The next day, when the groom came to pick up the bride, he was naturally blocked by the woman's children to ask for a red envelope, and then he ate sweet wine dumplings, which was sweet to perfection. see you again