What's so particular about the third anniversary?

Pay attention to the following points in the third anniversary:

1. According to the traditional etiquette, it is usually the third anniversary, that is, it cannot be advanced or postponed (if it is built by relatives, it should be greeted one day to show respect for relatives).

2. On the day of the memorial service, the children and family members (or brothers, sisters and family members) of the deceased should attend. Mourn for the dead, usually do not take the initiative to inform relatives and friends. When friends and relatives ask about it, they can inform the schedule and invite them to attend. ?

In order to highlight the solemnity of the third anniversary and the family members' yearning for the deceased, the blessings of the deceased should be decorated with flowers. At the same time, according to the personal preferences, personality, occupation and style of the deceased. , and in line with the actual situation of the park, the overall layout.

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The process of the third anniversary:

On the day of the memorial ceremony, the memorial ceremony should be held in the order of blood relatives and generations in the family. At the beginning of the memorial service, soft memorial music will be played, and then the host will read the memorial speech with the music. The content of the memorial will be formulated according to the different circumstances of each deceased.

After that, according to the folk custom, the eldest son (or eldest daughter) should offer three cups of green tea to the deceased, and then pay homage, pour wine and offer offerings (fruits, snacks, food, etc.) according to the closeness and seniority of family members. ), offer flowers, salute (bow down or bow down). Finally, the host announced the end of the memorial service.