We have been married for 9 years and have a good relationship. Every time I am unhappy, my husband won't make me happy.

You think too much. In fact, men are very simple. At least you can see that this man is still willing to pay for you. You're unhappy, which means something. I am generally the same. (I'm a boy) If my girlfriend is unhappy, I will coax her, Doby. When she is happy, I feel that everything is easy. If I am unhappy, I will be bored when I see many things. I don't want her to join the fun. Just follow him. If he is unhappy, try to talk to him. If he is too lazy to talk to you, leave him alone. Do your own thing and forget it. If he is happy, he will come to you naturally.