I always make people feel impatient when I speak, but I look a little arrogant. What should I do?

First of all, looks are a natural advantage, but they are not your proud capital. Appearance is superficial. Good people and smart people are used for self-confidence, not arrogance. You can change yourself. You always feel that you have always been that kind of endowment and can't suddenly put down your face. It's like letting others know that you admit that you used to be different. In the final analysis, it is a psychological problem. If you want to change, you must put down all the burdens on yourself and give yourself positive hints. Think about your changed situation. Secondly, don't look at others with colored glasses, but look at their advantages. Many people who are better than you should always keep a sense of crisis, read more relevant books to hone their minds and know how to deal with people and communicate. You can do it, be sure of yourself, and come on. I hope you can change yourself as soon as possible and wish you success.