Dengzhou custom

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Dengzhou marriage custom

During the engagement ceremony, the man should buy gifts, bride price, banquets, etc. And most of the people who are engaged with the woman are her mother, aunt, sister-in-law and other relatives, and the wedding date is to be determined. After the engagement, the man will also prepare gifts to invite the woman to participate in the festival. During the engagement period, if the man proposes to dissolve the engagement, the gift money, engagement money and clothes paid by him are not needed, and the woman proposes to return them in full.

The night before the wedding, please ask a child to sleep in a new bed, which is called "pressing the bed"; Also ask a married sister-in-law to scatter or put peanuts, dates, chopsticks and so on. Put it on the bedside to take the meaning of "early birth". Among them, peanuts must be raw, which means that the bride is going to give birth, and it is a boy and a girl. On the wedding day, we will decorate the new house, put up couplets, please play drums and entertain friends and relatives. Relatives and friends will also send some gifts. After the wedding, the couple entered the bridal chamber. Brothers, cousins and children ask the bride for wedding candy and money. Then the wedding reception begins.

During the dinner, the groom should introduce relatives and friends to the bride and pour wine to show respect for them. Relatives and friends can hold a wedding ceremony at night, which is an entertainment!