Gains and Perceptions of Parent-child Reading [10]

# Parenting Education # Introduction Parent-child reading, also known as "parent-child reading", takes books as the medium and reading as the link, allowing children and parents to share various forms of reading process, which plays an important role in extracurricular reading. The following is 10, the harvest and feeling of carefully arranging parent-child reading. Welcome to reading.

1. Gains and insights from parent-child reading.

Reading with children should conform to children's psychological characteristics, choose books that children like to read, let children have a good impression on books, and don't restrict children's reading too much in the process of reading. Because children can't read, our practice is to always encourage children to say what they see or what is in the book. If the children don't say it or miss it, we can remind them what else there is and so on. In addition to telling children what they see, we also encourage children to tell their thoughts and then communicate with their parents. This has persisted for more than a year, and children's reading interest has improved and their reading level has also improved. I think this is a good way for children to learn to observe and imagine. In addition to letting children talk about what they see and think about the peace talks, we can also share what we see and think with our children and guide them to learn to see and think for themselves in the future. In this reading process, we unconsciously revel in the world of books with our children and enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by reading together. Over time, children fell in love with reading and became close to us. We also realize that while reading with children, we also enrich ourselves. Persistence is the key to reading. Take time to read with your children every day. Usually, as long as we take some time to accompany our children to read and tell stories before going to bed. After a period of time, children can already tell many short stories. Parent-child reading should not only be an activity, but also a persistent routine. Reading every day can not only create a harmonious parent-child relationship, but also let children enjoy reading. Children read simply and happily. Reading with children every day is the happiest time in our life!

2. The gains and feelings of parent-child reading.

Reading more books and reading good books can cultivate children's sentiment, increase their knowledge and stimulate their interest in learning, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone. As a teacher, I know the importance of reading. The following is my experience, and I hope to share it with you. First of all, it is necessary to carry out parent-child reading. Parents can set a good reading example for their children. Example is better than words. To cultivate children's reading habits, the charm of setting an example should not be underestimated. Children and parents get along day and night, and parents must set an example in everything. Children will like reading only if they like reading. Therefore, as parents, we should study and grow together with our children.

Secondly, reading is important in persistence. When my child was very young, I bought him all kinds of books, word cards and other reading materials and gave him appropriate guidance. However, due to the influence of internet and TV, these things have not been used more timely and effectively, with little effect. Therefore, as parents, we should be able to set reasonable and feasible training goals and carry out reading to the end.

Thirdly, we should provide more reading opportunities for children. Reading can't be confined to school and home, and it's not just reading. The brand you see walking in the street and the small note you get at hand can be used as the content for children to read, so that children can feel that reading is an indispensable thing in life. Children's attention is easy to shift, so try to attract their attention in various interesting ways.

In short, reading can bring children the joy of success, broaden their horizons and enrich their minds. As parents, we should constantly think about how to lead our children through this critical period of language growth, and hope that through our efforts, we can cultivate children's good reading habits and thus shape their good personality.

3. The gains and feelings of parent-child reading.

Reading is an important way to know the world and absorb knowledge. How to make children love reading and take the initiative to read is always a concern of every parent. Parent-child reading is one of the important means to cultivate children's reading habits. In parent-child reading, not only do children establish good reading habits, but it is also very meaningful for our parents to cultivate their sentiments and enrich themselves. To cultivate children's reading, I will start by letting children choose their own books. At first, no matter what books children choose, whether it is comics, jokes or fairy tales, no matter how naive they are in the eyes of adults, as long as there is no bloody violence in them, as long as the content is healthy and upward, I will buy them for him to have a look. I think children should be made to fall in love with reading from the beginning, instead of parents ordering him to read some books that we find useful. This will only backfire. It wasn't until children began to like reading that I began to introduce some interesting books that I thought were suitable for children to read. But all I said was advice to him. I think the final decision should be given to the children.

And I think I will buy books that suit him occasionally. When he reads his favorite book, or when he plays, I will quietly open it next to him and read it slowly. Sometimes he will stop what he is doing curiously and come and see what I am doing. If he is interested, I will put down the book and tell him the story in it. When I talk about that wonderful place, I will stop. When he asked me, "What happened next? What's the matter? " I'll tell him I haven't seen it yet. He will be eager to find the end of the story with his book.

4. The gains and feelings of parent-child reading.

Reading is the basis and key of learning. Parent-child reading is an effective way of family education and an important way to cultivate parent-child relationship. It can make parents and children communicate well, narrow the distance with their children, improve their interest and enthusiasm, and it is also a process of enjoying family ties and sharing happiness together. I have been studying with my children for some time. After parent-child interactive reading, we have been surprised to find that children's reading habits have obviously changed from passive to active with the passage of time. Now the little guy has got rid of the habit of watching TV at night. Every time he washes in the evening, he clamors for his mother to tell a story. When he listens carefully, he will ask many questions. Sometimes these questions confuse us adults. I also often say some refreshing words, which are varied and have a certain level of language organization and logical reasoning. As an important way to know the world and absorb knowledge, reading has gradually integrated into children's interest world.

Therefore, we all pay more attention to reading with our children. Here are some of my tips to share with you.

The first is to choose books.

All the books in the family are selected with the children. I think we should respect the child's psychological characteristics and choose some pictures that she is interested in, such as beautifully printed, short and popular, and interesting content; It must also have certain value, and the plot development should conform to the child's imagination and thinking.

The second is reading.

The pictures in books and picture books are exquisite and rich, and there is usually excessive connection between them. Don't miss the details, pay attention to see the whole picture. Most of us let our children watch it first and encourage her to say what she sees and thinks. Then tell it to her and read a book together while talking. Finally, ask questions in the form of games, so that children can recall stories in the fill-in-the-blank games and deepen their impression of the content and language (encourage her to talk more if she is interesting and happy). Give some praise and encouragement if you answer correctly, stimulate and cultivate his potential and interest, so as to improve his reading level, but we can't regard reading as a dead task. As long as she is willing to read, we will be happy to accompany her to read, and we can't deliberately ask her to learn the words and remember all the contents. On the basis of interest, you can study hard.

Finally, the environment.

Because children are easily influenced by the outside world, we should create a relaxed environment for them. Keep reading and have a fixed time. The most important thing in my family is to turn off the TV and computer 30 minutes before going to bed and sit in bed reading; Take her to the library to read and borrow books on weekends and feel the atmosphere there; On weekends, when the weather is fine, I sometimes sit on the grass in the park or read under a big tree. Borrowing books from the library has a great advantage, not only saving money, but also cultivating children's good habits of cherishing books, controlling time and respecting the fruits of others' labor. In the past, my children thought the books were their own, and they could do whatever they wanted. The books they bought were "separated" in a few days, which broke my heart. But now I have completely got rid of this bad habit, which is really gratifying.

Parent-child reading can not only exercise children's language expression and observation ability; We can also develop good habits and light a lamp of wisdom for our children. Let's stick to it with our children and come on!

In short, parent-child reading is not a form, which requires parents to do it with heart and practice it with heart; Children's potential needs careful guidance and encouragement from our parents! I believe that every time you participate with your heart, you will feel the bright spot on your child! I will feel the charm of parent-child reading!

5. Gains and insights from parent-child reading.

"Parent-child reading" is based on reading. Through reading, parents and children learn together and grow together. It not only creates opportunities for parents and children to communicate and share the emotion and fun of reading, but also brings emotional comfort to children's hearts: joy, wisdom, hope, courage, enthusiasm and confidence. Since our son entered kindergarten, our parents and children have been studying for nearly a year. Happily, children have changed greatly through reading. First of all, children have developed good reading habits in a subtle way. Whenever I am too busy to read, he will remind me: "Mom, I didn't study today." Secondly, reading has obviously improved children's language expression ability. Whenever he says something refreshing or sentences, it will bring us some surprises and touches. Thirdly, I think reading virtually broadens children's horizons, enriches their thoughts and cultivates their independent thinking ability.

Companionship is the longest confession. Parent-child reading is not a form. It needs our parents to do it with heart and practice it with heart. Children's potential needs our parents' careful guidance and stimulation. I believe that every time they participate attentively, they will feel the bright spot on their children and feel the unique charm of parent-child reading.

6. Gains and insights from parent-child reading.

As the ancients said, reading is good, but you don't want to know much. Reading is an entertainment that can bring infinite fun to children, and it is also a learning method for them to acquire knowledge and broaden their horizons. Children's growth is inseparable from fairy tales. Reading aloud for children, reading with children, and making the little life feel the fun of the story and the warmth of being cared for are the starting point of early reading and the key link of early education. So, when Yao Yao was a baby, I told some short stories on the pillow to put her to sleep. Slowly, she found that there were too many stories to tell, and she could repeat them bit by bit in her own language that was not a sentence. When she is older, I bought her many interesting picture books and told her the story with great emotion. She always listens with relish and interrupts a few words from time to time. Even the stories in the book are familiar to her heart, and each story is repeated many times, but she never tires of hearing them. We are surprised to find that children's reading habits have changed obviously with the passage of time: from passive to active, from active to conscious, from conscious to spontaneous. She will pester us for story books to tell her stories, or when she wants to read picture books and we just don't have time, she will read them herself. More interestingly, she will gather the dolls at home, sit in front of her in rows, and teach stories to these "students" by herself. This subtle effect can only be truly realized if parents and children work hard and persevere patiently.

In the process of reading together, we will encounter many problems related to children's reading and thinking characteristics. Here are some points, hoping to attract more attention.

First, choose the right books for children.

First of all, I think we should respect the child's psychological characteristics and choose some pictures that she is interested in, such as beautifully printed, short and pithy, popular and interesting content; It must also have certain value, and the plot development should conform to the picture book of children's imagination and thinking. With interest, children will regard reading as a pleasure, not a burden. Secondly, choose some story books whose short stories contain little philosophy of life. You can combine your child's experience with family, teachers and classmates in real life when reading, so that the child can know what is right and what is wrong, let her know some simple social norms, and establish a positive, healthy and upward outlook on life and learning world outlook from an early age, as well as how to treat others. This is the truth that it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. Don't do it just because it's good and small, and don't do it just because it's evil. Everything starts with small things. It's much more important for children to become adults than talents.

Second, parent-child reading is persistent

We have to work hard every day and do housework when we get home from work, but no matter how busy we are every day, we must insist on squeezing out some time to accompany our children to study. You can read books with your children at home before going to bed and on weekends. Reading with children is the beginning of cultivating children's reading habits, making this wonderful parent-child time a habit and expectation in children's life.

Third, create a good reading atmosphere for children.

Let children contact books as much as possible, and family members read together at home, creating a good family reading atmosphere and infecting children with their enthusiasm. When reading with children, try to use childish language. Sometimes the language in the book is so abstruse that children can't understand it well, so I try to tell it to her in popular language. At the same time, after telling the story, encourage children to retell the plot or specific content in the book. In this way, children's interest in reading has become stronger and their language expression level has gradually improved.

Parent-child reading, not a form, requires our parents to devote themselves wholeheartedly and practice with heart. Children's potential needs careful guidance and encouragement from our parents! I believe that every time our parents participate in words and deeds, they will feel the bright spot in their children! You will feel the charm of parent-child reading!

7. Gains and insights from parent-child reading.

When it comes to parent-child reading, everyone knows its significance and importance, but often not every parent can do it. Sometimes children don't like reading and have insufficient self-control. We need to force them a little and interact with them in a lively way to improve their enthusiasm and make reading more interesting. Over time, children will gradually fall in love with reading. Recently, the following problems have been discovered. First, as children grow older, they prefer watching TV, and their awareness of reading decreases. I think this has a lot to do with whether parents can insist on parent-child reading. Parents should set an example and persistently carry out parent-child reading activities at a fixed time. If they fish for three days and surf the Internet for two days, it is impossible for children to develop reading habits.

In order to make Xu like reading as soon as possible, I insist on reading with my little fellow before going to bed every day. The first book begins with his favorite sailboat. Everyone says that my little guy should read less of this kind of books, which is not good at all, but I think as long as I am willing to read, it is a good start. Then, slowly, we began to read some children's books, and adopted clever guiding methods, such as Two Wan Li under the Sea, reading one paragraph of his and one paragraph of mine. But the method varies from person to person. Now my little guy likes reading. Before going to bed every day, he will consciously lie in bed and read for half an hour to enjoy reading.

Promote literacy by cultivating reading habits and interests, from less literacy in the past to more literacy now. That is to say, the ability of independent reading has been cultivated and the knowledge has been expanded.

8. Gains and insights from parent-child reading.

I know the importance of parent-child reading. The following are some experiences of our parents, which I hope to share with you: First of all, what impressed me most in parent-child reading is persistence. I bought all kinds of books for my daughter when she was very young, but some books were not used well in time because of the temptation of TV programs and computers, so we should set a reasonable goal and plan to carry out parent-child reading to the end.

Secondly, to understand children's reading psychology, it is not appropriate to control children's reading process too much. It is necessary to put forward requirements for children's reading in time, protect children's reading interest, and provide children with a relaxed and free reading environment as much as possible.

Third, parents and children read together to set a good reading example for children. To cultivate children's reading habits and make them have good reading interests and habits, parents must set an example. Children get along with their parents day and night, and their parents' manners and behaviors have a subtle influence on everything of their children. There is an old saying in China: "Implicit and natural." The same is true of reading. If parents love reading, children will love reading, read with them, be happy and grow up together.

The fourth is to provide children with more reading opportunities and forms. Children's reading time can't be confined to home and school, and it's not just reading. They can visit the bookstore and read books in the bookstore for a while. Everyone chooses some books they need to make children feel that reading is a necessity in life. Children's attention is easy to shift, so we must attract their attention in interesting ways and let children have indirect or direct experience opportunities.

The fifth is to give children the right to choose reading. Reading is an act of seeking knowledge and a kind of enjoyment. Therefore, parents need to control books and periodicals that are really harmful to their children. Generally speaking, the more books and periodicals children read, the better. Generally speaking, most children have their own hobbies and interests in the choice of reading content. In this regard, parents should pay attention to observation, understanding and guidance, and do not interfere too much.

In short, reading can bring pleasure to children, and reading is very beneficial to children's language development, ability to understand words and ability to use language. In addition, good reading materials can enrich children's minds and broaden their horizons. As for reading, there must be many good ways and means. As long as we have a heart that loves children and keep exploring and thinking, we will certainly be able to lead children through the critical period of this language successfully. I hope that through our efforts, children will have a good reading habit, thus shaping their own good personality.

9. The gains and feelings of parent-child reading.

Reading is an entertainment that can bring infinite fun to children, and it is also a learning method for them to acquire knowledge and broaden their horizons. Reading habit is the most valuable habit in life. As the saying goes, reading is like writing. Reading more books and reading good books can cultivate children's sentiment, improve their extracurricular knowledge and stimulate their interest in learning, which can really kill two birds with one stone. As a teacher, I know the importance of parent-child reading. Here are some ideas of our parents, I hope to share with you.

Parent-child reading is the key to stimulate and improve children's interest. I remember a story, which probably said that after a child was born, people painted honey on books to guide the child back to the past, thus planting an impression in their hearts from an early age that there were good things in the books. This is similar to what the ancients said: There is Yan Ruyu in the book and the Golden House in the book. Therefore, when my son went to kindergarten, the place I took him most was not a shopping mall or a playground, but Xinhua Bookstore. In Xinhua Bookstore, faced with so many children's books, children's interest in reading and learning naturally increased.

Parent-child reading, followed by the participation of parents. Nowadays, children are very imitative, especially parents who live together day and night. As the saying goes, if you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black, if you are near Mexico. At home, if parents watch TV, play games and play cards in front of their children all day, what good impression will they leave in their young hearts? On the other hand, if we read newspapers and books carefully at home, will children be imperceptible? The ancients Meng Mu moved three times for their children. Should we do it for the children now?

Parent-child reading, and then the persistence of parents. As we all know, children's attention and concentration are limited, and it is impossible to do one thing for a long time. At this time, careful parents should give appropriate encouragement and inspiration, so that children can feel the fun and benefits of reading. Over time, reading this good habit will naturally make children stick to it.

10. Gains and insights from parent-child reading.

Through "parent-child * * * reading", children's reading interest has become rich, and their reading level and language expression ability have gradually improved, which has enabled me to have deeper communication and exchanges with my children and have a deeper understanding of their psychological growth and emotional development. As a parent, I can have these feelings, and I sincerely thank the school and teachers for their good intentions to carry out such "parent-child reading" activities. You not only care for the children, but also build a platform for our parents to increase their knowledge of educating their sons.