What should I say when drinking with my relatives? How to relieve the psychological pressure when drinking with them … how to blend in with them, verbally or in behavior?

I've seen enough of this. I'll teach you some experience. Take your time.

Experience 1: People's hearts are all meat, so we should lower our status, stop putting on airs and posturing, be modest and self-effacing, know how to give people words and know other people's psychological thoughts.

Experience 2: Some words can be said, others can't be said, don't say that you can drink, and don't drink at all. If you have elders, you should respect them. If you have a younger generation, you should care.

Experience 3: can talk, can say good things, can't kiss up. Speaking of your relatives' concern and help, you can't forget it anyway, but they think you know the rules and are very measured.

Experience 4: Be generous, but don't be arrogant. Pay attention to your words, but don't keep silent. Keep your eyes on each other's eyes. Don't bow your head, sit up straight and don't bend over.

Lesson 5: Sing whatever you see and say what others say. Some people like you to say he is good, others like you to listen to him. Don't argue irrationally, let alone speak.

Experience 6: reasonable action and respect. People stand with me, people ask you to accept it, people say you want to listen, people ask you to answer well, don't perfunctory.

Lesson 7: Tell yourself that you can do anything, help others and be considerate, and you will be respected.

Experience it slowly and understand it carefully. This is years of experience, and every word is like gold.

In addition, in the face of money, we must be calm and don't have pressure. He can't do anything about you anyway. I don't understand why you still curse. If so, I suggest you change the subject, such as talking about some popular things, or whether they are busy and tired recently, whether there are any unsatisfactory places, and how they treat some things. You can ask boldly, don't be afraid, it's nothing, and don't cross people with bad temper. Start (a disease)