Is it really taboo to take children to the grave?

Taking children to the grave is taboo;

1 Children under 7 years old are not allowed to enter the grave. It is said that children can see bad things with their eyes. In addition, the cemetery environment is also poor, children are prone to illness, are more likely to be frightened, and even children are prone to cry, which is also a disrespect for the deceased around the cemetery.

2. In Tomb-Sweeping Day this year, families with new children must take their new daughter-in-law and mothers who have just given birth to children to visit graves, which is a custom in some places. First of all, explain that ancestors belong to sects, and then comfort ancestors: there are new people in the family!

3. If such a family goes to the grave, it is necessary to set off firecrackers. Among the curling cigarettes that set off firecrackers, a couple should kowtow and salute at the grave, and the children should be hugged by adults and say, "Dad (mom) and daughter-in-law (grandson) salute you!" Of course, how to call it depends on the identity and seniority of the ancestors.

4. When going to the grave, don't talk loudly, laugh and curse, and talk loudly. It is a disrespect for ancestors. They should control their emotions and attitudes so as not to disturb and offend evil spirits.

5. Avoid running and jumping when going to the grave. Go to the grave solemnly, and don't cross the grave and offer offerings, which is also a nuisance to the nearby spiritual body.