How do neighbors get along?

Neighbors should keep a certain distance, and don't get too close, because they live upstairs and downstairs and next door, so there are many opportunities for contact, and there will be a lot of friction inadvertently, and there will be many bumps in their hearts. As for distant relatives, it is better to be close neighbors. It depends on people. I think it is a wise saying that distance produces beauty. After all, in today's cities, many people's hearts are no longer pure because of such things and relationships.

In daily life, it is inevitable that there will be communication between neighbors. So how can we handle this relationship and let the neighbors live in harmony?

First of all, neighbors should help each other and keep their promises. Every family will encounter great and small difficulties in daily life, which requires neighbors to help each other and try their best to help what they can. When others are in trouble, we should actively help them, and never gloat or look at jokes. At the same time, neighbors should keep their word, and don't brag about what they can't do, so as not to miss other people's events. Things borrowed from neighbors must be returned in time. If the return time is delayed due to negligence, you should apologize to others.

Secondly, think more about others and consider whether your hobbies and living habits will bring distress to others. There are great differences between people, especially in life. Maybe you think it's nothing, but maybe some of your actions may hurt the harmony between neighbors. For example, do you have the habit of singing karaoke at night, and it will exceed12pm once you sing; Do you always spill laundry water or other unclean sewage on the sidewalks used by your neighbors as soon as you leave home, and so on. These seemingly insignificant things are the most likely to hurt the harmony between neighbors.

Finally, we should learn to be polite and tolerant. Be polite to your neighbors, be approachable, never treat them as passers-by, take the initiative to greet others after meeting, and don't be harsh on your neighbors at ordinary times. If you can get along, you can get close. If you can't speak, keep a friendly attitude at a distance, and remember not to have the bad habit of criticizing others. Take a "reasonable restraint" attitude towards the unreasonable demands and practices of neighbors and solve them reasonably and properly.

If neighbors can live together in a harmonious and friendly atmosphere, everyone can share happiness when they are happy, be comforted when they are frustrated, and get help when they are in trouble, it is really a blessing. As the saying goes, a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor. As long as neighbors can pay more and understand, there will be fewer big things and fewer small things. Why worry about not being able to live and work in peace?