After breaking up, if a woman hooks a man's heart with chat, he will "bow down" to you?

After breaking up, if a woman hooks a man's heart with chat, he will "bow down" to you? When the relationship encounters problems, the first party to break up usually feels guilty. After all, two people loved each other, and the one who broke up was basically thinking about saving it. Because it is still difficult to let go, communication is the most effective way to save it at this time. Even if we are separated, we only need to contact, so it is only a matter of time before we learn the following communication skills.

1, can't chat. If you really don't know what to say after breaking up, try not to say it. There is no need to find some lonely topics to talk about because you are afraid of being too embarrassed. This kind of chat will only make the other person feel bored and have no impulse to chat with you. It will also distract him from your concern and finally decide to contact you completely. This ending is the last thing you want. Therefore, when communicating with each other, we should also learn to observe the color and correct the topic of chat in time. If you feel that the other person has a feeling of not wanting to talk, you should stop talking at once. Instead of embarrassing chat, it is better to calm down and make the other party less resistant.

When we learn to listen and communicate, we all want to express our ideas, but we usually ignore what others want to express. Sometimes a small thing that others seem inconspicuous can cause our own inner waves. You want to express your feelings, but no one can feel them with your heart, and you will be disappointed. Just like when others talk to you, they all hope that you can feel it with your heart and get your approval and understanding. So try not to interrupt others at this time.

3. Find a topic that the other person is interested in. When you are in love, I believe you know each other very well. Therefore, when saving, we must choose a topic that the other party is interested in and try to avoid chatting, but the topic of chatting does not necessarily involve emotions. This is a sensitive topic for you after breaking up. Don't expose your emotional demands, so that the other party will think that you can't live without him, and at the same time, they will think that you are entangled and will strengthen your defense. Try to find a topic that interests both of us, and everyone feels comfortable. The chat atmosphere is relatively relaxed, so that the other party can gradually learn to let down their guard and be willing to chat with you, which is easier to recover.