When is the best time to get married?

Under the premise of following certain traditional solar terms, as long as two people feel suitable, it is appropriate to get married at any time.

In my opinion, in order to get married, two people need to achieve self-inner stability: they are no longer eager for fresh opposite sex, are not confused about the road ahead of life, have experienced or experienced feelings or other things to reach their expected weight, and are determined to live reliably and safely. It's wedding time.

1, it is more appropriate to choose Runnian Runyue.

According to tradition, a full moon will have a good omen. Every two or three years, there will be a whole year, that is, two beginning of spring and a full moon. For example, 20 17 is a "double spring leap month", which is very suitable for marriage. In addition, there is a saying that the Mid-Autumn Festival, which is full at the beginning of the month, is the most suitable month for weddings.

2. Dates should be based on women.

As the saying goes, "when a man is born, a woman depends on her wedding day." Choosing a wedding date depends on the horoscope of both men and women, as well as the situation of the woman. There is an old saying about the auspicious day for women to get married: healthy qi welcomes chickens and rabbits, Bahu monkeys, Sanjiu snakes and pigs, forty dragons and dogs, fifty-one cattle and sheep, and sixty-two rats and horses.

Step 3 avoid parents' birthdays

In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married.

4. Avoid the days of Sannianzi and Yang Gongbi

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, San Niang betrayed Yue Lao and ruined the couple's wedding. Therefore, the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

People have taboo customs in their daily life. If you are lucky, you can say it. If you are unlucky, you should avoid saying it. Therefore, there is a saying that "the spirit is good or not ugly." In taboo customs, it is especially forbidden to say or use the number "thirteen", and all weddings and happy events do not need the thirteenth lunar month.

5. Avoid March 7th and September of the lunar calendar.

According to the old tradition, it is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Jinggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for holding happy events. However, these pressures are not absolute. The most important thing is to arrange the wedding date scientifically according to the local wedding customs and the opinions of elders, combined with the actual situation.