In Grain Rain, I received a book from a distant friend.

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Today, Grain Rain is the best time to plant seedlings, melons and beans. I also received "seeds" from a narrow door-two books. Really want to thank friends from afar!

Narrow door is a diligent writer. He has been working almost every day since this year. He knows exactly what books he wants to read and what words he wants to write. He wants to be a happy writer. He never goes with the flow in his writing, always sticks to his original heart and keeps forging ahead. He has been writing a book review recently, and the book about it will be his after he finishes it. Absorbing the essence and nutrition in the book, the whole person is full and happy. A person is not as happy as others, so he asked me about giving me a book. Although I was embarrassed, I readily agreed.

Very troublesome. I accidentally left a number in the middle of my mobile phone number, but he added a number at the end. Can I be contacted by such an express delivery? Fortunately, there is only one pick-up point of ZTO Express in our community, and the first express is closed. The second time I picked up the courier phone, the inexplicable black screen could not be opened; Finally got it back for the third time.

Ah! It turns out that in Grain Rain season, in this solar term where rain gives birth to hundreds of valleys, and in this timely rain that irrigates my dreams, I was asked to receive books from distant friends. Someone always cares. How lucky!

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He said there was a book that I would definitely like.

I don't believe it. How can I be so sure and see it?

My last article "Random Thoughts on Chatting" (now locked) inadvertently revealed some puzzles in educating children in today's society. I feel that the future road is not 985 and 2 1 1, and I firmly believe that I will continue to be crazy about it.

Who knows the news of a narrow door hit the nail on the head: is it great to graduate in 985, 2 1 1? You must know how to teach students well. Crazy educational situation, morbid pursuit of the trend.

The last sentence made me think a lot. Do we have to pay attention to children's grades? Should paying attention to children's psychology, independence and growth be a secondary focus? Is it really good to take care of one thing and lose another?

The book "Mom Accompany You to Test Tsinghua" was sent to me sooner or later. I can say for sure that I really like this book. It's raining outside the window, so it's a good choice to sit at home and read. Like this hard-working mother, she was quickly attracted by the pictures and texts in the book and finished it at once.

This book is a hand-painted diary of an art teacher in pinghu city, Zhejiang Province, which was recorded by her mother 100 days before her daughter's college entrance examination. The accompanying exam mentioned here is not what we often say. My daughter Tutu goes to high school in Hangzhou, which is different from her parents. She communicates by phone every day and comes back once on weekends.

Mother rabbit will not alienate her daughter because of different cities, but she will cherish every time she talks to her daughter. On the day of 100, my mother was willing to make progress and grow up with her daughter, and finally she was admitted to Tsinghua successfully.

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Although I am a mother of primary school students, my children are still far from the college entrance examination, but the educational ideas and methods in the book are worth learning and learning from.

(1) Words of encouragement and positive energy emerge one after another.

Parents know to encourage their children, either you are really good or you are the best and lack of monolingualism.

Mother rabbit not only draws humorous pictures, but also encourages her children with various golden sentences every day, and even moves out the inspirational quotations from Yale University. Inspirational chicken soup is everywhere. For example, the message of June 1 ST is: in our long and short life, find what we love to do from the heart and stick to it. So is the college entrance examination. Come on!

Not only did the child not feel pressure, but he became more and more confident because of his mother's affirmation.

(2) It is better to let go and give children full ideas than to restrict them.

Children will eventually go to society, and their minds and thoughts will gradually mature. Parents' opinions are for reference only. Let children learn to think independently, make their own choices, and gradually get out of their parents' sight. The sky is vast, birds are singing and flowers are fragrant. The future is in our own hands and no one can control it.

(3) A democratic, equal and harmonious family atmosphere is a subtle educational force.

From the birth of Tutu, she is a witness to every growth, progress and achievement. As a mother, she doesn't want to miss any opportunity to let her children grow up, because children are a sweet burden to their parents.

Tu Tu's anxiety, doubts, tears, anger, Tu Tu all understand. They are not only mother-daughter relationship, but also the most sincere friends. Their relationship is not superior and subordinate, not antagonistic, but parallel and cross.

The meaning of home to children is a beacon on the sea, giving people light, direction and strength to persevere.

(4) Moderately relieve depression when nervous.

The tension in the student days can be imagined. What about the college entrance examination students? Sometimes, a movie, a song, a bowl of beef noodles and a steak are all good ways to relieve stress at that time, which is better than a lot of nagging.

During the summer vacation of senior three, other students were cramming for the Buddha's feet. Mother rabbit advised the rabbit to go to southeast Guizhou to see the outside world, and wanted her to know that there were poems and distant fields besides exams.

Tutu's mother knows that Tutu is a small movie fan, so she will accompany her to the cinema to watch la la land on Saturday.

(5) Encourage children to express their anger.

Keep studying, reviewing and taking exams. The closer you get, the more you will doubt yourself. Encourage children to tell the reasons for anger and anger. Parents and children should stand in the same position, guide in time, get through obstacles, don't be disturbed, and let children concentrate on their studies.

Education is sometimes more about what parents say than what parents do. Mother rabbit from buying food and making cakes to sorting out the trinity information; From the attention of the general model test to the college entrance examination scores such as staying up late; Every step is accompanied by Tu Tu, which is the power of warm companionship.

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The second book is 642 things to write. I haven't seen it yet. You don't need to look at it when you open it. Why?

The brilliant idea of this book comes from 35 different writers of the San Francisco Writing Association. There are 642 unconstrained writing topics around the world, which are not repetitive and weird and fun. For example: the meanest thing others have said to you; Write an anonymous letter to a stranger and share your life experience; It is 2 100, and there is a shortage of fresh water resources in the world. Describe the daily life of a day and so on.

This kind of book is very interesting. Throw the questions to the readers, then change your identity, answer each question from the author's point of view, and write it on the horizontal line. Provide readers with writing direction and inspiration, and no longer feel that the material is exhausted.

Related books include 642 small things to write, 642 big things to write and 642 paintings to draw.

Finally, thank you again for the two books and precious signature messages sent by Narrow Gate!