What is the saying that the old man died in the first month?

Say, "it will be in June, it will be in the first month."

It means blessed are those who die in the first month.

Death day of the first month:

The old man died in the first month, April, July and October, belonging to a snake. People who belong to pigs, tigers and monkeys had better avoid them. The old man died in February, August, May and November. People who belong to rats, horses, chickens and rabbits had better avoid them. The old man died in March, June, September and December. People who belong to dragons, dogs, cows and sheep had better avoid them.

Don't go to crowded places;

The ancients said that "filial piety is the first virtue", and China people attach great importance to this matter. After the death of an elder in the family, during the Spring Festival of the first year, the family should try to be quiet and avoid laughter.

You can't attend friends' parties during holidays, and try not to go to public places. When going out, you should avoid going to crowded places. In addition, you can't go to temples and Buddhist temples, because the dead are taboo in these two places, and going there will offend the Buddha.

Sacrificial products are not red: the first Spring Festival after the death of elders, sacrificial products can not be as red as in previous years. Chopsticks served can't be red, and all kinds of dishes can't be dyed red. All kinds of red cakes eaten in the New Year should be changed into white ones, such as dyed jujube cakes in the past and bald cakes similar to steamed bread. In addition, on New Year's Eve, we will go to the cemetery to pay homage to our elders and lead them home for the New Year.

Don't pay New Year's greetings: if an elder dies at home, you should close the door and thank guests in the first year of Spring Festival. You can't go to relatives and friends' homes or pay New Year's greetings, otherwise it will bring bad luck to others' homes.

If you want to visit relatives, you'd better take a walk in the twelfth lunar month, and you can't visit other sick old people. From the first day to the third day, you can't go out, you can't attend happy events, and you can't have human relations, because the traditional concept is that it is unlucky to meet people who are filial on big days.