Why do some people hate the smell of Chinese New Year now?

There are several possibilities for people who hate Chinese New Year. Let's discuss them one by one.

1. Lack of money:

Since ancient times, Chinese New Year has always been about wealth, which lasts for more than one year. If the Chinese New Year is not plentiful and is tight, it seems to mean poverty in the coming year. The so-called lucky money, so if you have no money, you will naturally be afraid of the New Year, and you will hate it.

2. hurt in my heart:

This is a few exceptions. One of my sisters, whose child died unexpectedly at the age of eighteen, is still sad. Besides, it's even more sad on holidays. Other people's families are reuniting with their families, but their own families are always incomplete. This psychology has led to hatred of the Chinese New Year and even all festivals.

3. Unable to integrate:

Some people like to live in their own world, and take the gathering between relatives and friends and the excitement of the New Year as a burden. This kind of people can't say there is something wrong with it, but they don't take into account that Chinese New Year is a tradition and one of the rituals of life. Most people are observing a kind of reunion and celebration, but such people can't be integrated. It's not terrible that they can't fit in. The terrible thing is that some of these people not only don't fit in, but also show resistance, which makes people around them unhappy, which is somewhat selfish.

4. Fear of losing face:

This category is somewhat similar to the first category, except that the lack may not be money, but some places are not satisfactory, such as career or love. During the Chinese New Year, family members always care about their own situation, not to mention whether they really care or deliberately compare. In short, when asked about pain, they are always unhappy. So I hate Chinese New Year.

Generally speaking, those who hate Chinese New Year are all above. Personally, I think it's mostly because of my own mentality. No one has a clear conscience. Others are talkative and frank. What are you afraid of? If the Chinese New Year is restored to its original appearance, it is family reunion, and then the Chinese New Year returns to happiness.

When I was young, Chinese New Year was our expectation for the following reasons: First, when I was young, Chinese New Year meant enjoying a month's winter vacation. Different from summer vacation, summer vacation is harvesting wheat and planting corn. The weather is very hot, but there is no farm work in winter vacation. This is a festival to buy goods and visit relatives and friends for the China New Year.

Second, when I was a child, the Internet was not as developed as it is now, and the speed of economic development was not as fast as it is now. At that time, almost no family had much money. Just before the end of the year, I could feel the strong flavor of the year. Adults either come back from work or stay at home during the slack season and play cards and mahjong in the street every day ... while children set off firecrackers, make snowmen, have snowball fights and so on in groups of three. They are carefree.

Third, when I was a child, my family would buy new clothes, toy guns, lucky money and a lot of new year's goods. Although it won't cost too much money, every family will look brand-new ... no matter adults or children, their faces will be filled with simple happiness in the new year. ...

..... I will remember many feelings when I was a child. I'm sure you do, too. Although I am not afraid of the Chinese New Year now, I still miss the happy and harmonious Chinese New Year when I was a child. Now everything is money first. Even if you have any ambitions, you should go with the flow. A penny beats a hero ... now is the era of rapid development of internet economy ... On the street, on the subway and on the train, everyone is a low-headed family. I remember going home for the Spring Festival last year.

Sometimes, I really hope that the pace of development in this world can slow down, or, in the tide of development, we can slow down, take a good look at the scenery that is slowly slipping away, enjoy the life time that is gradually disappearing, and cherish the reunion moment that is becoming less and less. ...

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