Those things about babies (1)

Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: education is the foundation of the country!

Throughout the ages, China has had many admirable mothers, such as Meng Mu. The story that she moved to her former residence three times to study for her children has been widely circulated.

It's solar term again. It is said that Chinese medicine bathing and Chinese medicine massage will have a good conditioning effect on children's bodies. So seize this node and enhance the resistance of the doll!

I don't know why I took Bao Xiao to take a bath, but I was reluctant! Don't let me touch the massage, hold me tightly, cry pear flowers and bring rain, and call mom!

What should I do in this case? Shall we stop taking a shower or leave him alone and let him cry, and we will continue?

Well, I took the child from the masseur, hugged him and took him to take a bath. Although I was still crying, I insisted on soaking him. The masseur asked me: Did you hit him at home? I paused and asked why. He said: most children will resist if they don't want to. Look at your child. Even though he cried, he was still soaked to the skin, but he didn't resist. After listening to this explanation, I smiled and said, on the one hand, it is related to the child's personality, on the other hand, it is also related to the parenting style of parents. Although I am usually tepid and definitely played, I have never been vague about one thing, and that is the principle. If you promise your child, you must do it; I won't let the children do anything.

That's why I don't want to, but with my company, I still insist on soaking.

This world is not something you don't want to do. You can't change what you don't like, so you must also change your mind and force yourself to get used to it, right? This is what society teaches us.

One more thing, I also want to talk about.

Once, I took my baby out to play, and the two children were in conflict. Let's distinguish between A and B. B robbed A's twisted car, A wanted it back, and said that B's little brother was a big bad guy. At this time, B's mother heard it and was very unhappy. She caught the child and taught him a lesson. Later, the two children played together again, playing windmill on the third scooter. B suddenly slipped away, and A followed. B suddenly stopped, A didn't stop the car and almost ran into it. B's mother may have seen her child suffer again, so she was unhappy again and taught A a lesson.

I sat on the edge, looked at my children, and sighed, really protecting the calves!

No matter who is right or wrong, two little boys are playing together, one is over two years old and the other is over three years old. What are their right and wrong? Even if there is, it is caused by adults. Even if they are quarreling one second, they can be friends the next.

Let the children solve their own problems. They have their own way of dealing with problems, which they really can't handle, and it's not too late for parents to intervene again. Everything is arranged for the children. When they grow up, can you accompany him for a lifetime or have a mine at home, enough for him to eat and drink for a lifetime?

I read an article before, saying why children are timid and have no opinions. Later reports showed that it was mostly because the mother was too strong.

When I meet such parents, I also run away from home with my children and don't play with your children …

It doesn't matter if it's not bitter. I'm afraid I can't explain it clearly and I'm angry with myself …

There is a proverb that weeds should be removed early and children should be educated from an early age.

Early education is very important, seize the critical period of education and focus on training!