When a friend makes you angry, how do you ease the atmosphere?

My personal opinion is that there is no definite answer to this question, and it cannot be generalized. We should improvise in various social situations. Although some people are born with high IQ and emotional intelligence, it is always easy to solve embarrassing situations and ease the atmosphere. To tell the truth, I envy such a person with high emotional intelligence, but I'm not. My personal suggestion is to learn more social means. Although IQ and EQ are born sometimes, experience can be accumulated, so if you are not very good at handling this situation, you can usually learn more about how others handle it.

Social means can't be learned overnight, so we must pay more attention and accumulate more experience in getting along with friends. Let me tell you what I will do if I meet a friend who makes me angry. First of all, we must determine whether this friend is a true friend. People are near or far away. Many people are friends, but in fact they can only be regarded as acquaintances. Some of them can't hide the kindness of others and are extremely interested in other people's lives. Care? Always deliberately say something got, for this kind of person, I suggest not to ease the atmosphere and go straight back.

You should understand that a true friend will not deliberately step on your sore spot, expose your scars, laugh at your bad places and make you angry. If a true friend accidentally makes you angry, the best way to deal with it is to say it directly. Friends should get along sincerely. If this friend makes you angry, you should say it and tell the other person that you care. I hope ta won't do this again. If you are a true friend, it will remember your taboos and won't make you angry again through this. If there is any misunderstanding between friends, speak out directly and solve the misunderstanding, otherwise it will only drift away.

Finally, think clearly about why you are angry. If no one can convince anyone because of differences of opinion on work and academic matters, it is necessary to ease the atmosphere at this time. In this case, you might as well take a step back and say something about seeking common ground while reserving differences, put aside the dispute for the time being and continue to do business. If you are angry because of something personal, you should first consider whether what your friend said is really reasonable. If it is your fault, you might as well calm down and apologize to your friends. If your friend is too sarcastic and deliberately exposes people's scars, then go back.