What are the two kinds of people on the wine table? They usually have good skills. How accurate are the warnings of ancestors?

Who's performance on the wine table often reveals his uniqueness inadvertently, hiding great skills!

Disciples' Rules says, "It's better to talk less than to talk more, but that's the truth. Don't be smart!" What does this sentence mean? Bian Xiao translated for you? ! "There are too many words, most of which are nonsense. It is better not to say; Tell the truth from facts, don't rhetoric! " There is also a cloud in the old saying: "If you talk too much, you will lose!" In fact, this is also a meaning.

At this time, readers may get angry and start throwing rotten eggs-what does this have to do with the performance on the wine table? Wait, wait, wait! ! Calm down, calm down! ! This is not "telling the truth after drinking"! ! Therefore, everyone should calm down and listen to Bian Xiao!

First, treat everyone equally.

Treat people equally, regardless of thickness. On the wine table, opposite you, you may be ordinary people or dignitaries, but since you sit at the same table, it proves that you are equal at this time. "Introduction to Caigen Tan" says: "It is not difficult to be strict with villains, and it is difficult not to be evil; It is not difficult to treat people with courtesy, but it is difficult to treat people with courtesy! " What do you mean by that? It is always not difficult to be strict with villains, but it is difficult not to show disgust; It is not difficult to be polite to a gentleman, but it is difficult to always be polite. Life is like this on weekdays, especially on the wine table. As the saying goes: "deep feelings are boring, shallow feelings are shallow!" " No matter you are a powerful person or a common people, a few Du Kang will eat you up. They are all brothers and sisters and unify the Jianghu. At this time, some people are slightly drunk, others are fake drunk, just to see your embarrassment, seize your clues, and then stab you in the back! But if you can keep "self-denial" on the wine table, the realm and achievements you have achieved will be extraordinary, which is one of them. So what is equal treatment? In other words, there must be room for words, not extreme, not grandiose, not impulsive, not casual ... how can a person who can behave like this after drinking have no great skills?

Second, keep the bottom line.

On the wine table, many things are often talked about and done when people are slightly drunk after three rounds of wine. It is easy to lose the bottom line. "Caigen Tan" said: "Don't get your hands on the road, don't regress on the road!"

(Bian Xiao's inner OS: Hey, it's Caigen Tan again? What is it? It was originally a collection of quotations from Taoist cultivation, life, life and birth in the early Ming Dynasty. This is a rare treasure training, not respect! ! ! )

What is the explanation of this sentence? In fact, it says that people should never cross the red line on the road of desire, because greed, discontent and lust ... in short, it is very bad; And you should never give in to the truth and the truth! Speaking of which, I think everyone will think of a familiar scene in costume TV series: eating rice and drinking wine to get things done! How ironic! But if you can keep your bottom line and morality at this time and not be eroded by interests and desires, are you still an ordinary person? You are an extraordinary person with a bottom line, integrity and hard work! In other words, know your bottom line, wake up after three minutes of drunkenness and know how much you can drink! How can such a person not achieve great things while enjoying himself and staying awake?

After listening to Bian Xiao's explanation, do you admire your ancestors' warnings? People who have these two kinds of wine table performances are not simple. He has great skills and he can achieve great things. Of course, whether on the wine table or not, we should treat each other equally, keep the bottom line, keep a pure heart and always have a great mind, so that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach", so that we can be in an invincible position. Do you think this is the reason? !