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Reflections on Mother's Day

? My father gave birth to me and my mother bowed to me.

? "If you get grass, you will say the back of the tree." The meaning of The Book of Songs: Where is the day lily planted in front of the mother's hall to make her forget her troubles? From then on, Xuantang refers to the house where mother lives; Hemerocallis, also known as girls without sadness, are flowers for their mothers.

? "Han Tao peas taste new." In the long summer, spring bamboo shoots are tender, cherries are full of branches and peas are tender. The solar terms in the long summer are always around Mother's Day. Now, we make a new kind of long summer rice, which is not only a gift for my mother, but also a memory of my childhood.

Zhang Ailing said: "Mothers have a common problem. As long as you say which dish is delicious, they will cook it frequently until you get bored and complain. In fact, in this life, she is desperately giving you what you think is good, giving you love at a loss. "

In the annual rings where children grow taller step by step, parents' endless sweat flows, engraved with their parents' joys and sorrows. It is this bitterness, this joy, this acid and this sweetness that make up our different lives and give us different enjoyment.

The so-called youth means that you are not sophisticated enough, don't know what you are doing, and can't do it.

Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "the son does not teach, and the father is guilty." It is the duty of parents to educate their children. Even if they are not confused at forty and know their destiny at fifty, they still have this ability.

First-class loyal minister and dutiful son Public order and good customs still advocate benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and trust.

How to educate children? There is a saying in the countryside that "the dutiful son is killed with a stick, and the rebellious son is destroyed with a stick", which has its truth, but it is not entirely right. There is also a folk saying that "how bold the rules are". It can be seen that the dutiful son is not typed. "Only I am honest" can not be separated from the good tradition and education of the family. Behavior has far more influence than language, and example is greater than words.

But coquetry is really the cradle of disobedience, not enough. Mr. Lu Xun said: Parents should have a sound generation, try their best to educate and completely liberate their children.

Parents can't be absent during the critical period of children's growth. Companionship is the best gift for children.

Parents can't impose non-love behavior on their children in the name of "love" under the banner of "love".

Mourn for my parents and give birth to me.

The year of parents is indispensable. One is joy and the other is fear. The so-called tree wants to be quiet and the wind will not stop, and the child wants to keep it. As a son, filial piety is the first virtue. How to be filial to parents? Book: Meng Wenxiao. Confucius said: No violation. Filial piety has always been associated with harmony. Filial piety, filial piety, and obedience as filial piety. But it doesn't stop there. Confucius once said on many occasions what "filial piety" is. The so-called "filial piety" is not only able to feed parents. Ceng Zi distinguished three levels of "filial piety": filial piety to one's relatives, humiliation and burden-bearing, and support. Today, people who are conservative, pluralistic and impetuous have long been carried away by this kind of "foolish loyalty and great filial piety" and are unwilling to learn.

Enlightened parents also listened to Mr. Lu Xun's words and no longer asked their children to be obedient to themselves. For example, in marriage and career choice, they are independent and free, and consciously open the shackles of "father is child".

Parents are eager to support the elderly, have fun with their grandchildren and enjoy family happiness. They need to understand and communicate. Children should be patient, be more patient, bridge the generation gap and be considerate of the elderly. It is normal for a big family to get along with each other and occasionally have misunderstandings. However, there is an old saying that "contentment is always happy", which is quite reasonable to some extent.

In Jin Yong's "The Condor Heroes", even a cynical and authentic villain like Dong Xie Huang keeps a respectful distance from his dutiful son and bows to all the dutiful sons in the world.

Guo Ju's filial piety in burying his son today is controversial. The woodcarving of Dantland, which was done by Wang Xiang, is still famous in history. Animals still have lambs kneeling on their chests and crows feeding back, which is praised by people.

In the suburbs of Tang Shimeng, I was deeply moved, and Ode to a Wanderer has been passed down to this day.

Lotte's poem says: I'm afraid that if time is short, I'll be hungry in my nest. After 30 days of hard work, mom's skinny chicken is getting fatter and fatter.

Mother's Day, Father's Day and Senior Citizen's Day are all very popular. But love is everyday, which is unusual.

I would like to pay my respects to the two teachers and say hello to Xu Jing.