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Do children in early childhood also need a good family atmosphere? Can they understand?

Let the children in this process, many parents will quarrel and discuss some fierce things constantly. They think it's still relatively few. As long as the voice is not so loud, he can't understand it, so he didn't quarrel behind his back. Besides childhood, will children feel your emotions?

It's best not to quarrel in front of the children. In fact, it is understandable that two people quarrel. After all, some things may happen at some time in a long life, and a fierce quarrel suddenly broke out between two people. This is an inevitable thing in the life of no husband and wife, but if it is not a matter of principle, it can basically be forgiven. When I was young, my parents often quarreled. I'm so scared every time I cry. Sometimes my memory is not particularly clear, but I always feel that the quarrel between my parents is the most terrible thing in my memory.

In addition, when he was young, he felt that his parents had some fierce quarrels, and he would be afraid himself, so he cried when he quarreled. At this time, children will feel their parents' emotions and become irritable.

It will have an impact on children in the future. Some people may say that children are bad people, but if you don't pay attention when you were a child, you will find that the relationship between two people is getting worse and worse, and you are constantly remembering these things. Moreover, you often quarrel, which will make your child's temper irritable. Even sometimes your quarreling mood is not particularly good, and my attitude towards children will change. At this time, the deadpan child is still being emotional contagion by you, which will naturally affect his growth.

Older children will be relatively more sensitive.

And if the child has already gone to middle school, quarreling is a particularly terrible thing for him. After all, many things have been known to his parents at his age. Once we quarrel, will he doubt if something will happen to my parents and I will lose this home? In addition, my study is relatively simple at this time, and these things at home will also affect my study to some extent.