How to cultivate temperament

The first point: from the depths of thought.

Many people are considered uneducated by others, not that they are really uneducated, but that we didn't notice some small places in the growing environment, which will give people an impression of being uneducated in the long run. Therefore, we should realize our own shortcomings from the depths of our minds and pay attention to small details. Only by recognizing your own shortcomings from the depths of your mind can you improve yourself in the most essential way.

The second point: start with the details.

The lack of quality is actually reflected in many details, and small details should be done in daily life. For example, don't smoke in public, don't spit on the road, and actively extend a friendly hand when you see someone asking for help. In the long run, we will cultivate good self-cultivation, gradually improve interpersonal relationships and make more and more friends like you.

Number three: change your speech.

The lack of quality is also reflected in the way you speak, so this is also something we should pay attention to. For example, don't talk loudly in public, and smile when talking to people. We can also make our language humorous. In our spare time, we can read essays or poems and learn about international news. Expand our knowledge and make our words rich and interesting.

Fourth: Don't lose your temper.

No one likes a person who loses his temper at any time, and no one likes a person with a bad temper, so

We should cultivate our own character and try not to lose our temper. There is a way to bring a string of beads. When you are in a bad mood or want to lose your temper, take out the beads and count them, and then you will feel calm.