Drinking in the New Year, the elders clink a large glass of wine with you and drink it dry. How can you not lose your manners if you don't drink enough?

This happens from time to time in the north, and it did happen. Only sincerity is your best choice. First of all, you should raise your glass and stand up, respond to the toast of your elders, and sincerely tell them that you really can't drink well. Can you drink less and do what you can? Anyway, no matter what, don't fight for wine. Life is important. At this time, keep a clear head. Don't drink for face, politely refuse, stick to it, be neither humble nor supercilious, that elder can't take anything from you.

In fact, this question varies from person to person. The key lies in your own grasp. Northerners attach great importance to socializing on the wine table. I grew up in the north and experienced many such scenes. Drunk feeling is very sad, mentally and physically uncomfortable. I still have to grasp the bottom line and never get drunk. Alcohol consumption is not important, the most important thing is whether your character and ability can pass the test of society. This is the true meaning of life.