Read with children and grow up together (including the summary of parent-child reading list in recent 3 years)

There is a sentence in "Stealing Reading" by Lin, a female writer in Taiwan Province Province: "You grew up eating and reading!"

Now you won't deny that children's reading is as important as their eating! Reading and eating are the same thing to some extent. Eating ensures physical health, while reading ensures mental health.

In this long vacation, reading with your child for a while every day will make your child fall in love with reading and develop a good habit of reading, which will benefit your child for life. The following are some thoughts about parent-child reading by myself and friends around me:

First, the starting point of reading is at home.

There used to be a popular article: the best school district room is your study! After reading this article, I am more sure that the starting point of reading is at home and the starting point of learning is reading. Parents' reading habits and family reading atmosphere determine children's initial reading attitude.

I have two children. The eldest son is eight years old and the youngest daughter is two years old. I feel guilty about my son. Before my son went to kindergarten, I was busy with my work and didn't realize the importance of reading. Before my son was four years old, I didn't pay attention to cultivating his reading habits. At ordinary times, his grandparents took him during the day, either going out to play or watching Logger Vick anti-Japanese war movies at home. It was not until my son went to kindergarten that I saw the importance attached by teachers and other parents to children's reading and the behavioral gap between my son and other children, and I began to consciously accompany my son to study. The son who always likes to imitate Logger Vick's walk and talk, and likes to shout "Go, kill, kill" in his mouth, finally gradually becomes less emotional and willful.

When my son was about to enter the first grade, because the father of the child wanted to lead the child to live a pure "happy childhood", we didn't enroll the child in any small bridging remedial classes. In the first grade, I was worried about his lack of literacy. Later, it was found that he probably knew nearly a thousand words unconsciously because of his usual reading accumulation, and his language expression ability was particularly strong. At this time, I feel that three years of parent-child reading has not been read in vain! Of course, the habit of reading was not originally established for children to read, but in the process, he gradually established this awareness, so now he not only reads independently, but also reads widely. Although my son's reading habits started a little late, he gradually fell in love with reading by accompanying him attentively and deliberately creating a reading environment.

In view of my son's previous experience, since my daughter was born, I began to buy her black and white cards of the corresponding age to read card brochures. Now my daughter is also very interested in reading. Every day, she would hold a picture book or a card for me to read to her. Although she can't read, if I tell her which book to take to my mother, she can give it to me accurately according to the cover of the picture book.

We often say that parents are the best role models for children, and children's good reading behavior will also affect parents invisibly. Even my father, who said that he had a headache and wanted to sleep when he read a book, was gradually reading books and picture books for his daughter. You can't bear to disturb your child when he is reading carefully; When he laughs, you will wonder what is written in the book so interesting; Children ask about the sources of allusions in many books, and you have to look them up ... because I study with my son, and I like reading deeply myself. In the past, I may have been busy with my work and didn't care, ignoring that I actually liked reading. Reading brings me a lot of inner enrichment and pleasure!

Later, the arrival of my second daughter made me leave my job and become a full-time mother. At first, I was very anxious and depressed, but insisting on reading made me gradually get out of this psychological shadow period. At the same time, the opening of WeChat official account needs a lot of content output, which also makes me understand that only by insisting on reading and continuous input can there be corresponding output. So I want to keep the continuity of content input, which is one of the reasons why I ask myself to read books every day. When reading, I sometimes take my children with me. There is a study room at home and an independent reading corner. Children like to sit in their own reading corner, which is very helpful for their reading habits. Therefore, we advocate parent-child reading, which can not only enhance the intimate relationship between parents and children, but also make adults and children intoxicated in the world of books and enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by reading together! More importantly, the family culture and environmental atmosphere that loves reading must be conducive to the growth and success of children.

Second, reading is a pleasant thing, please don't compare with others.

It should be emphasized that reading is not a task. Is it difficult to study with children? At first, I must have thought it was very simple. Just read a book! Why did it turn out to be difficult?

First, you may not be able to stick to it, even if you only need to spend 10 minutes on your children every day, it is not so easy for you.

Secondly, your children may not like reading very much. He can't sit still for a while! Over time, mom and dad's frustration will sprout, and it is very likely that they will gradually give up studying with their children.

Examples of friends around her: Her brother loves reading. When he is over two years old, he can read quietly for at least 30 minutes, while his younger brother is completely different. I gave him one and threw one away. Friends will also wonder why my brother doesn't love books so much because of the same parents' background. Later, after listening to a lecture, the teacher said that parent-child "reading" is equivalent to parent-child "reading". The first thing is to make parents feel peaceful and happy. No matter how early others start reading to their children, no matter how cooperative other children are when reading, let alone how many books other children have read. As long as you are willing to pick up a book and read it to your child, it is a good start. Later, she stopped obsessing about the two children's completely different attitudes towards books, but remained skeptical about reading with her brother every day. Even if my brother leaves after reading only one page, maybe after two or three months, my brother can really hear her finish reading at least one book.

It takes time to develop reading habits. Patience with children is the beginning of good habits. I hope we can all stick to it!

Third, reading time is not only at night, but also at home, and it can be anytime and anywhere.

Generally, we arrange parent-child reading before going to bed. On the one hand, parents of office workers will have time to accompany their children at night, and secondly, evening is the best time to infiltrate their children's thoughts.

In fact, reading can be done anytime and anywhere. There are two reading corners at home to create a special reading area for children. I don't think it's a bad thing to have books everywhere at home. I can reach for the books by the bed at any time, and there are books in the toilet. My son stinks and will read it. I think this is just like reading newspaper impurities when we used to eat in restaurants, and it is also an edification of reading.

We can take two books with us when traveling and read and talk with our children on the plane, on the train or in our car. Sometimes I even take my sister out to play, and I also bring some picture books. When we meet some children who are tired of playing, let's sit on the floor and have a little story meeting!

At the same time, we can take more children to the library. General libraries have special children's sections. Children like to roam in the sea of books, and under the mutual influence of friends, they are more likely to sit down and concentrate on reading for a while.

Reading is a wonderful thing, stick to it with your children! Just like giving your child at least three meals a day, read with your child for 30 minutes every day. In the end, you will find that not only children but also adults will benefit. Reading will make us become better ourselves with our children.

Four, there are so many good books, how should I choose?

Here are some suggestions for my book selection:

1. masterpiece

If you don't choose a specific picture book, it is the least wrong to pay attention to well-known picture books. For example, Song Juzhi, the father of Japanese picture books, and Durai, the French fairy tale master. Durai's representative works include The Great Book of Art, Little by Little, 10 10, Ha! Make no mistakes "series is highly recommended. Have you finished all the 50 picture books that Song Juzhi likes?

For example, cultivate language skills: Dawn, Mifei, Ali will wear pants, crocodiles love to take a bath, and so on. What a big sweet potato, curious George, gloves and so on. Give children vitality;

Feel the warmth of parents and children: if radish comes back, guess how much I love you, shit, runaway rabbits, love trees, etc.

There are also those who cultivate the willpower of life concept: the last stop in the market street, the unique self, Xiaoqing wolf, riding a duck, Bigfoot learning ballet and so on. You must not have seen it all, did you? Buying according to the book list is also a shortcut.

2. Age breakdown

Nowadays, many good picture books are marked with recommended age or suitable age, which is called graded reading.

/kloc-within 0/year: Establish reading habits, and you can transition from simple black-and-white pictures to color picture books, such as Baby's Visual Picture Book, Kissing Little Peaches, Cave Book, etc.

About 2 years old: understand various living habits and cultivate basic cognition. Such as: David can't, scratch series, chicken ball series, breast story, my parents and so on.

3 years old and above: mainly to stimulate children's interest, while establishing various rules to cultivate life ability and study habits. Serena rushed forward. Giraffes can't dance. You look delicious. Grandpa has become a ghost. Grandpa must have a way. Joseph has an old coat. Crazy Tuesday. I like books and so on.

3. Interest comes first

Children's interest is an important basis for choosing books. At least the books they buy will not be wasted if they are interested. I believe many children like animals. When it comes to choosing books, they can buy many books related to animals, such as The Hungry Snake, The Hungry Caterpillar, BrownBearBrownBearWhatDoYouSee, Little Pink Pig, etc. Most of them are loved by children.

If the child doesn't like vegetables, you can buy a picture book related to vegetables for him to read. Colorful vegetables are so beautiful and lovely. Children may like to eat vegetables after reading them! "I love vegetable series" is recommended here, and the Japanese Duan Liyang Iwasawa is the best at plant painting.

4. The arrival of the sensitive period

Every child will experience terrible twice. When they cry in various ways, they should not only accept his negative emotions to comfort them, but also help them find appropriate ways to vent and solve them with the help of picture books.

The following can be used to guide children to learn to express their emotions correctly: angry Arthur, angry soup, I don't want to be angry, Feifei is angry, and I have become a fire-breathing dragon, Philip's seventeen emotions. ...

When a child enters the park for the first time, it means leaving his parents to live in a strange environment. How to alleviate their separation anxiety? There are many good books to read at this time: I love kindergarten, a bag of kisses, I don't want to go to kindergarten, so I'm worried ... children will go through various sensitive periods, so this is also a good opportunity to introduce reading.

When children are about to go to primary school, they think they will become a real primary school student when they grow up! The mood is proud and expecting. I have friends to rent, cute little mouse, one day, cattle driver, pig snoring, Pinocchio's adventures, a cat that lived a million times, a diary of an earthworm, a mouse marrying a bride, a donkey turning into a stone and so on. Can guide them to understand friendship, care about their classmates, and turn hostilities into friendship in time.

5. Don't ignore seasons and festivals.

The changes of the four seasons throughout the year delight all creatures, and take children to feel all these beautiful things: "Hello, the four seasons", "I am a bunny", "the seasons alternate" and so on. In spring, with curiosity, we watched Meet Spring, Flower Mother-in-law, Swimming with Uncle Gan, and Spring of the Calf with Children. You can see grandma's spoon and snowman in winter.

In addition, every year we meet various festivals. On Father's Day, we watched "Dad, I want the moon" and "A Day Without Gifts" with my father. On mother's day, see mother's red sofa and mother's milk. Even in traditional Tomb-Sweeping Day, how to explain the heavy topic of death to children, picture books can help you: Does grandpa wear a suit? Grandpa, I love you forever, a gift from the badger. Today is the Dragon Boat Festival, and yesterday was the ear seed, so I took my children to see the picture books of Origin of Traditional Festivals in China and Twenty-four Solar Terms. Appropriate solar terms in a festive atmosphere will make children more interested, more willing to explore and have deeper memories.

Five, let children fall in love with reading tips

1. Six incentives:

(1) for example.

2 read it in person.

③ Ambient atmosphere

④ Appropriate reading materials

⑤ Good connection

⑥ Positive excitation

2. Five magic weapons:

① Happy experience

(2) Do what you want to do.

③ Start as soon as possible.

④ Rich and colorful

⑤ Wait for bloom.

3, the general law of reading:

Black and white cards → color cards → picture books → more pictures and fewer words → more words and fewer pictures → pure text reading.

Accompanying reading → accompanying reading → accompanying reading → independent reading.

4, independent reading resistance:

(1) lack of understanding ability

② Reading materials are not attractive enough.

③ Lack of self-confidence

4 lack of security.

5. Parents should keep the attitude of independent reading:

(1) Do not disturb or destroy.

(2) Don't insist, don't pursue.

③ Patience, companionship and timely satisfaction.

4 encourage appreciation and affirm in time.

Tips:

Cherish the wonderful time of reading in person, and don't rush to get rid of it. After all, such warm and intimate time is limited.

Children will grow up soon, they will be more willing to have their own personal space, and there will be less and less demand for their parents to accompany them to study. At this time, parents may feel lost.

Six, infant parent-child reading tips:

1. Repeat reading every day

A few months old baby, it is best to choose a few short picture books to read to the baby repeatedly. Read books 2 ~ 3 times a day for a month, and change to another book after reading.

2. Hold the baby in your arms and read to him.

Babies like to be held by their mothers and play with books while listening to stories. Let the baby sit on his mother's lap, put his arms around him gently, and let him read and tell stories in a book, so that the baby will feel more secure and comfortable.

Don't spend too much time reading and reading.

Babies may never be able to sit down and listen to stories for long. After ten minutes, when the baby loses interest in books, the mother can let him play with other things.

4. Prepare colorful, lively and interesting books and cards.

While telling the baby, hold the baby's little hand to recognize the text. This provides the baby with the opportunity to accept the stimulation of words, exercises the baby's cognitive ability of language, rhythm and color, and communicates the affection between parents and baby.

Brothers and sisters with appropriate age gap can try to get older children to study with younger children.

My brother likes reading books with my sister now, and reading her favorite chicken balls and piggy Peggy to her sister. Maybe his sister's adoring eyes made him enjoy it very much. Sometimes my brother chooses books to read to my sister, and sometimes my sister chooses books for my brother to read with. This kind of family reading enhances the affection between their brothers and sisters, exercises their brother's reading and expression ability, and makes him feel proud and happy. The two brothers and sisters love each other more, and most importantly, they save me a lot!