My boyfriend says he doesn't like festivals, but he really doesn't like me or doesn't care about me?

You really shouldn't guess a man's mind, because if you guess, you won't understand. To put it simply, whether a boyfriend likes holidays or not has nothing to do with whether he likes you or not. So, don't worry too much and don't be sad. If you want to know whether he really loves you, you should look at his usual performance, not worry about whether he loves holidays.

When I was a child, there was a very loving neighbor couple downstairs. Grandpa likes planting flowers, and he is also good at planting flowers. Every time the flowers bloom, he will personally pick the most beautiful one and give it to grandma. Grandpa doesn't care about holidays. For him, every day with grandma is happy. Of course, he cares about her.

On the contrary, I have met many couples who care about festivals very much, but they finally broke up. Of course, Valentine's Day and Chinese Valentine's Day will be celebrated, as will Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival. It is understandable to choose to celebrate the 24 solar terms, but I don't quite understand that Tomb-Sweeping Day should celebrate. But even couples who care so much about festivals can't make it to the end. The reason for breaking up is also very simple, and I feel inappropriate. Now that we have broken up, we can't talk about whether we care about each other.

So you see, even if people who love each other don't value festivals, their feelings are still very good, and life can be very ceremonial. But people who don't love, even if they rack their brains to remember all the festivals, will eventually go their separate ways. We can't say that your boyfriend doesn't care about you just because he doesn't like holidays. Of course, if he still doesn't say anything on special days such as birthdays and Valentine's Day, even in normal times, he is very ordinary to you, then he really doesn't care about you.