Can I go back to my mother's house on the winter solstice?

Going back to my mother's house in winter to the solstice said, "going back to my mother's house in the winter to the solstice is like dying of old age."

In some places, there has been a saying for many years, "Going back to my mother's house on the solstice of winter is like an old man dying." On the solstice of winter, a married daughter can't go back to her mother's house for dinner, but must go back to her husband's house. Otherwise, it will have a bad influence on my father-in-law

This sentence makes many people want to know what it means, and it also makes many modern people feel very confused, but no one dares to deliberately violate it. In case of a disaster to the old man, no one can bear the responsibility. Therefore, on the solstice of winter, all married daughters must stay at their in-laws' homes.