Caricature of husband and wife adjusting atmosphere

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Some people call this marriage cycle the "seven-year itch", from the novelty of meeting for the first time to the passion of getting married, and then to the triviality after having children.

After seven years together, how will your life change from two people to a family of three or even four?

Not long ago, a group of cartoons showing seven years after marriage became popular on the Internet. Although the content of the cartoon only shows the change of sleeping position, many netizens think it is too real after reading it!

Comic version of "Seven Years after Marriage", from the first year to the seventh year, the sleeping position is so real.

In the first year, the key words of newlyweds are mostly: love and romance.

This is reflected in the sleeping position, which is to hug each other face to face. Even if the sleeping position changes unconsciously at night, many couples will hug again when they wake up the next morning.

This stage is also the sweetest and strongest stage of the relationship between husband and wife.

In the second year, many couples with pregnancy plans ushered in the crystallization of love.

The arrival of the child also changed the sleeping position between husband and wife. In order to take better care of and protect the baby, parents usually put their children among them.

Gradually, the children made many young couples forget the first hug and sleep. ...

In the third year, with the growth of children, when children are not at home or sleeping with the elderly, the sleeping position between husband and wife has changed from cuddling to sleeping on the same side.

Compared with the former, this sleeping position will give Ma Bao more sense of security and comfort. Although the original passion has faded, the relationship between the two has become more stable.

In the fourth year of marriage, the sleeping posture of husband and wife has changed greatly, and the sleeping mode of a family of three is getting closer to real life.

Although it is still the quilt, the main force to take care of the children has become the mother, and the busy father has begun to habitually brush his mobile phone before going to bed. In this regard, mothers often feel dissatisfied with the other half.

It is also from this moment that the original embrace and sleep has become a long-lost memory.

In the fifth year of marriage, although the sleeping position of a family of three was changed to that of middle parents to protect their children, the focus of parents' attention at this time was not on their children. At this stage, as parents become more and more assured of their children, they begin to entertain themselves in a hurry.

The most common scene is to play mobile phones separately, and the communication between husband and wife is getting less and less.

In the sixth year of marriage, the child successfully slept in separate beds and rooms with his parents.

At this time, although the couple share the same bed, they sleep in the opposite position as when they were newly married, and it has become a habit to sleep back to back.

In addition, there are many families where couples sleep in separate rooms for various reasons: he snores, he works overtime too late, and I am more comfortable sleeping alone. ...

In a blink of an eye, when Dabao finally stepped into the primary school gate, the couple welcomed their second child.

Like many families in real life, Bauer's birth is not as exciting as Dabao's. Parents with parenting experience have matured a lot, but at the same time, dad's participation has also declined, and many second children have become exclusive to mothers.

In the picture, and sleep together, and Bao Dad habitually sleeps on the other side.

This group of cartoons makes many netizens tell the truth. Some people think that the arrival of children has broken the original romance between husband and wife, while others say that the happiness of marriage has nothing to do with children, but more and more people forget their initial heart in trivial life.

"It's true. After having children, we went to bed back to back. Now we're going to drive him to the study. Snoring seriously affects my sleeping with my children! I am worried that the relationship between husband and wife is getting weaker and weaker. "

"In the second year after marriage, my husband and I slept in separate rooms. Our lives are different, and it is even more torture to sleep in a bed after having children. "

"This is true, from the heart. How many people sleep in the first position after marriage? After six or seven years, I became a stranger sleeping in separate beds! "

Children are not obstacles to marriage, but adhesives.

In real life, many people attribute the weakening of the relationship between husband and wife to the arrival of children, and think that children are the terminator of romantic life and the obstacle to marriage.

In fact, although children make many people's lives more busy, and it is indeed easy to increase small contradictions among family members, from the perspective of marriage, children are not the main reason for the weakening of the relationship between husband and wife.

On the contrary, for a high-quality marriage, the arrival of children can make both husband and wife reflect on their own shortcomings, promote the development of their careers and their passion for life, thus making the relationship between husband and wife closer. From this perspective, children are the glue between husband and wife.

Similarly, learning to manage the relationship between husband and wife is also very beneficial to the healthy growth of children.

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Have you changed your sleeping position since you had children? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!

I'm Xiao Xuan's father. I take the initiative to learn to be a "daughter slave" with a baby and share my thoughts and feelings in the process of parenting every day. If you like my article, please pay attention, forward and comment. Your love is my greatest motivation for writing!

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