Which university did Ma Jinyu graduate from?

She is a media person who used to work in first-tier cities. She once claimed to be in love, married to Guide County, Qinghai Province, and gave birth to a child for her beekeeper husband Tashi.

Calling her husband's heart "like the spring water on the mountain", it was once said that they kept bees and planted flowers and lived in a paradise.

In the published article, she accused:

The reality is that she suffered from her husband's long-term domestic violence and infidelity. For the sake of the children, she endured many times and never called the police.

Now, she is out of danger and determined to face everything.

According to previous reports, Ma Jinyu was born in Xinjiang. After graduating from college, he became a reporter in first-tier cities, wrote in-depth reports for many well-known media and won many news awards.

In 20 12, as a reporter of 14, she met the beekeeper Tashi in the interview.

47 days later, she married Guide County, located in the southwest of Qinghai.

In 20 15, she helped the ecological ingredients in remote pastoral areas find the market through e-commerce, and the micro-store named "Prairie Pearl" was also rated as "the star of micro-store".

At that time, she was interviewed by many media, and the story of her "marrying a beekeeper in Qinghai, from a female reporter to a star shopkeeper" was passed down as a much-told story, saying that her husband's most attractive trait is kindness:

"His heart is particularly clean, like a spring on the mountain."

In an interview on 20 17, Ma Jinyu sweetly recalled that she got married 47 days later because Tashi was afraid that she would run away.

She said that before that, their marriage certificate had been tied in Tibet, saying that it would never be found.

"The conditions there are not good. Many girls got married and ran away. The men here are afraid. "

But in the interview at that time, Ma Jinyu had revealed her husband's "male chauvinism", saying that "in the culture there, most men are male chauvinism and never listen to women's opinions".

For example, she also said that Tashi would be unhappy if mainland friends came to see her. "What are these people doing here? What do they have to do with you? "

At that time, she had given birth to three children for Tashi.

In Ma Jinyu's blog post published on February 6th, when she was pregnant with her third child, she had already suffered from severe domestic violence.

Ma Jinyu said that she was often beaten black and blue by her husband. Every time she was beaten, she informed the Tibetan women workers who worked with her that tomorrow would be a holiday.

"After a few days' rest, I asked them to come to work casually. I think, I also want to believe that there will be no next time, but it will get worse every time. "

Ma Jinyu recalled that in 20 15, after her husband got drunk in the middle of the night, he asked her if she was related to his Tibetan friend (male), and then suddenly beat her up.

"My eyes suddenly blurred, my fist kept hitting my head, my hair was caught and I couldn't move. I only heard the child crying, and the child's father shouted,' Look at your grandmother!' I was incontinent when I hit my head. "

Ma Jinyu wrote that the beating continued until the morning. She was covered in blood, but she didn't call the police, not once.

She went to Qinghai People's Hospital in Xining by herself, and the examination was an eyeball hematoma and a broken brow bone.

At the same time, she found herself pregnant with her third child.

Less than a month after being beaten, her husband was caught with a Tibetan female worker. When questioning her, she was kicked in the stomach and began to bleed.

Later, she hid in a friend's house as an ancestral Yi doctor. Although she had been bleeding, she saved the child.

During this period, she was most worried about her eldest son, who had a car accident at the age of 20 1 1 two months, resulting in severe laceration of her right brain and mental retardation.

Ma Jinyu said that during her domestic violence, reporters from the County Federation of Literary and Art Circles and the county TV station all knew that a teacher from the County Federation of Literary and Art Circles said to her, "You have to fight for breath, don't fall down, don't accept your fate."

She also recalled that after her micro-shop was built, the beekeeping farm was targeted by local people, and their bees would be burned to death if they didn't give money. The villagers also teased her that it is impossible to make money by opening an online shop. "It must be black-hearted money."

Someone in the village went to her husband to make a fire and said, "Your daughter-in-law is in charge of money. What kind of person are you? " Cann't control a woman's house? Not satisfied with the treatment? "

Later, when her husband was drunk, he would beat her and frequently asked for the password of the online store.

20 17 During the Spring Festival, Ma Jinyu said that her husband was having an affair with a Tibetan female college student. She wanted a divorce, but her husband refused.

During this period, she also worked hard to run micro-stores, borrow money to purchase goods, pay rent, pay wages to workers and pay tuition fees to children.

"I have never been able to take the child away, and the father of the child has repeatedly threatened to write on WeChat:' Let's die together.' Hang all the children and let's die together on the grassland! "

20 18, she finally had enough and left her husband with three children.

Before leaving, she wrote a long letter about how her husband beat her, how she treated the children with the nanny and why she took them away.

"The calves and waists of the three children were smashed by their drunken fathers with belts and belt buckles, and they were all purple bruises." She sent a long letter to the teachers of the County Federation of Literary and Art Circles and the Propaganda Department and entrusted it to the County Women's Federation and the Public Security Bureau.

Ma Jinyu said that she was very grateful to her colleagues and friends who helped her. She and her children will have a good life. She has no resentment, but she still believes in love.

After the publication of the article, it caused a hot discussion among netizens, and the word "today" was also searched.

Some netizens mourned for it, thinking that she should not blindly endure for love and children, because it would get out of the misery earlier.

However, many netizens pointed out that domestic violence is domestic violence. Don't shift the focus because of the victim's forbearance. It is the perpetrators who should be blamed.

Husband responded:

The facts don't agree with her article.

In the early morning of the 7 th, the reporter contacted Tashi.

He introduced himself as Xie Decheng, a 40-year-old Han nationality.

He has read Ma Jinyu's published articles, and the domestic violence and derailment mentioned in the article are "false".

"I did reach out and slap her on the Dragon Boat Festival at 20 1 1, because my dad drank wine that day and she kept scolding my dad. I am caught in the middle. "

Xie Decheng said that reaching out and hitting people happened on the Dragon Boat Festival on 20 1 1, when they had not been involved in a car accident.

However, it never happened that Ma Jinyu was beaten black and blue.

As for the affair, Xie Decheng said: "This may be because she misunderstood. At that time, she saw me drinking with another female worker, not cheating. "

"I don't know why. She stole three children. I was delivering the goods that day. "

Xie Decheng said that in July, 2065438+2008, he found that three children were taken away by their mothers, and he has not been in contact with them so far.

"At present, whether she has any evidence or not, I especially hope that she can give me a reasonable explanation now. Why did she leave without saying goodbye? "

Xie Decheng said that at present, the two are not divorced. He stays in the local beekeeping and needs to pay the wages and rents of migrant workers that have not been settled before.

During the day on the 6th and the early morning of the 7th, the reporter contacted Ma Jinyu several times, hoping to conduct an interview, but Ma Jinyu did not reply.

Local police have been involved in the investigation.

In response to the former media Ma Jinyu's self-reported domestic violence by her husband, the Minister of Rights and Interests of Qinghai Women's Federation responded on February 7:

They are highly concerned about the incident, and the local women's Federation also attaches great importance to it, and has set up a special working class to take charge of the incident and is coordinating with relevant departments.

The head of the aforementioned rights and interests department called for opposing any form of domestic violence. If you are suffering from domestic violence now, you must have a sense of self-help, including calling 1 10, 12338 women's rights hotline and other channels for help.

"We must use legal means to safeguard our legitimate rights and interests."

The person in charge said that after investigation, the provincial women's Federation was the Guide County Women's Federation, but Ms. Ma herself has not been contacted so far.

"If Ms. Ma involves divorce and other issues in the next step, we will also send the concerns of the Women's Federation, including the issue of child custody and the division of husband and wife's property. We will all advocate safeguarding the rights and interests of women who have suffered from domestic violence. "

On February 7, the reporter learned from the local public security department in Qinghai that the police had been involved in a comprehensive investigation.

Qinghai police said that so far, there has been no report of horse domestic violence.

The Propaganda Department of Guide County Committee responded that the investigation team composed of Guide County Women's Federation, the Propaganda Department of County Committee and Xinjie Township Party Committee is investigating and verifying the relevant incidents reported by Ma Jinyu.

At present, the information learned by the Propaganda Department of the County Party Committee is that Ma Jinyu has indeed opened an online shop to sell local specialties, and her husband Xie De is a Han nationality and is a beekeeper. Other information is not clear at the moment.