Don't ask and answer, what kind of chat will not make the atmosphere awkward when you get along?

First, talk to a girl. If she doesn't answer one, don't send the second one (remember)!

Girls ignore you, or are busy, or don't want to talk to you, that is, they are not very interested in you. At this time, information bombing is nothing more than digging your own grave. If you don't reply, there is no need to send it again, let alone ask? Hey, why didn't you answer me last time? This creates an embarrassing problem.

The correct way is to find something to do while waiting for the girl to reply. It's best to forget that you sent this message, so as not to appear that you are an idle person who will only walk around her every day.

Don't talk to her every day! Many people are anxious to determine their relationship with each other after they like a girl! So ask questions every day! This kind of behavior will only make girls feel pressured and won't like you!

No one will cherish what is too easy to get! So are women! When we get along with her, being too active will only make the other party feel that we are at your fingertips and that we are completely eaten. She will definitely not cherish us! We should learn to be hot and cold, so that she can't guess us!

For example, be warm to her these two days, and it will be a little cold in a few days! For example, when she makes a request, refuse her appropriately! For example, when chatting happily with her, take the initiative to stop chatting on the grounds of something! Girls are inherently insecure, so you must take your time with them!

Another way is to chat with girls more! So you don't miss her that much. Ha ha! Chatting with girls is not to make you fancy, but to balance your mentality and effectively control your sense of need by chatting with other girls! )

Second, quickly upgrade the relationship method: engage in ambiguity!

Most boys know that licking girls is wrong, and they often control their sense of need when chatting. But it often goes to the other extreme, that is, no matter whether the girls react well or not, they are always under control! Actually, because he didn't dare to upgrade his relationship, he used it? Control the sense of need? Rationalize yourself!

In fact, many girls want boys to upgrade their relationship quickly, so how to do it?

The easiest way is: engage in ambiguity!

When you talk to a girl, you can talk about gender. For example, what kind of boys she hates and likes. After talking, you can't swear any more. Any apprentice, girl and silly girl have to go up.

Some boys? Honest man? This matter was interpreted incisively and vividly. Eat and sleep when chatting every day, what to do at work, what topics to talk about between pure friends, and feel that they control the sense of demand.

Will this happen? We had a good talk at first, but then we gradually ignored me? This situation! Such a boy would say? I did nothing wrong. I am very cautious. It's cold because I didn't do anything, okay, brother! It's boring to chat with you, it's better to watch TV series!

In this way, you will only receive a good card in the end, because girls can't take the initiative to upgrade their relationship. It must be done by men. If you don't come, you will be a girl's wood. If you miss the window, it's not far from catching a cold.

Third, chat? Hi? Take the initiative to retreat When I was a child, I always liked chatting with girls until there was no topic and I didn't know what to talk about. Finally, I found out that my sister ran away with someone else. I was puzzled for a time, and finally found myself making a fatal mistake.

This fatal mistake is: telling the whole story too early leads to the loss of girls' mystery, and girls are no longer curious about themselves, so they lose their attraction. They didn't know how to play hard to get at that time. Just like the end of a TV series, you must leave a suspense. Tomorrow you will be in front of the TV on time, waiting for the beginning of that yearning.

The same is true for chatting with girls. If you find that you and she are going to talk more and more, don't talk until there is no topic. Be sure to stop at hi. You can find an excuse:

I still have some work to do here. Can we talk about this later?

Much as I want to talk to you, I have to get up early tomorrow. I'm really sorry. How about tomorrow? .

Give a reasonable reason to leave, and don't disturb girls' interest. At this time, girls will be curious about your unfinished topic. She will rationalize this curiosity as? Interested in you? .

When you are kind to a girl, you spend a lot of time and energy on her, even a lot of money. Did it succeed in the end? I think most people are losers! Why? To get a woman's love, it is not enough to be kind to her! She needs to know you! ! !

We usually talk to girls about some home-cooked topics, which will let this girl know some basic information about you. But if you want this girl to be more interested in you, you must tell her more experiences and stories!

At the same time, guide each other to tell their own stories and experiences, so that not only can this girl know you better, but you can also know her! If there are similarities between you and her story, there will be a * * * sound between you, which will quickly bring your closer!