What happens when you quarrel on the solstice in winter?

This winter solstice quarrel will greatly affect the feelings of both sides.

Winter solstice is an important solar term in the China lunar calendar, and it is also a traditional festival of the Chinese nation. On this day, people usually get together, enjoy delicious food and feel the warmth of family. However, if we quarrel on the special day of winter solstice, it may have a bad influence on the feelings of both sides.

The solstice in winter is the traditional family reunion day. On this day, people will put down their work and go home to spend the holidays with their families. If a quarrel occurs on such a day, it may destroy the harmonious atmosphere of the family and affect the feelings of family members.

Secondly, the solstice in winter is an auspicious day. People will eat jiaozi, glutinous rice balls and other delicacies on this day, symbolizing reunion and happiness. If there is a quarrel on such a day, it may bring unpleasant emotions to both sides and affect each other's mood.

Therefore, on this special day of winter solstice, we should try our best to maintain a harmonious and pleasant atmosphere and avoid quarrels. The two sides can enhance mutual understanding and resolve conflicts through communication. At the same time, we should learn to be tolerant and understanding, and respect each other's opinions and feelings. Only in this way can we deepen the feelings of both sides and celebrate a warm and beautiful winter solstice festival.

Precautions for quarreling:

1, Stay calm and rational: In the process of quarreling, the most important thing is to stay calm and rational. It is easy to say hurtful words when you are emotional, which may aggravate contradictions and cause irreparable consequences. Therefore, even if the other party's words are fierce, try to control your emotions and communicate in a stable tone to avoid escalating contradictions.

2. Respect each other's views: Although there are differences between the two sides, we still need to respect each other's views and feelings when quarreling. Try to understand each other's position and reasons, and don't deny or laugh at each other's ideas easily. By listening and understanding, it is possible to find similarities or compromise solutions, thus solving disputes.

3. Avoid personal attacks: the quarrel should be directed at the problem itself, not at the personal attacks of the other party. Avoid using insulting language or exposing people's shortcomings, which will only hurt each other's self-esteem and further intensify contradictions. Express your dissatisfaction and demands clearly, but pay attention to the wording and keep a realistic attitude.