Chaoshan breaking the moon solar terms

Divide men and women, but I don't know how to divide men and women. I believe your parents have also told you many reasons for the taboo of breaking the moon, which is very common in Chaoshan. If your parents don't believe me, you can go to a fortune teller to do the math. You two can fall in love freely, and the fortune teller will try his best to make you both perfect when calculating for you. Also, you should try your best to do your parents' ideological work yourself. Now, some old ideas should be put aside. May you two go to the end! ! (seek the best answer)