Why do you want to go to the man's house for the New Year in the year of widowhood? Can I get married?

Why do you want to go to the man's house for the New Year in the year of widowhood?

Beginning of spring solar terms mean the beginning of spring every year, which is a very important day for everyone. In ancient society, the ancients had to do two things: one was to send away the winter, turn it into a native cow and teach it a lesson. The soil is cloudy, the cow is ugly, the December is ugly, and the yang is insufficient. Teaching local cattle, such as driving away yin and cold. The second is to know Chunyang, a boy. "Sacrifice Record" records the welcoming ceremonies in various counties and cities: On the day of beginning of spring, everyone in full of green welcomed the spring outside Dongguo. Let a boy wear a green scarf and coat, first in Dongguo outfield. Those who come out of the wild when spring comes, and then those who welcome them will worship and return and offer sacrifices. The appearance of boys symbolizes the east and the sun, and represents the coming of spring. Therefore, it is also a good sign to go to the man's house for the New Year in the year of widowhood.

Can I get married in a widowed year?

The solar term beginning of spring does not exist, because the calculation method of changes in ancient calendars has nothing to do with natural phenomena and will not have a special impact on people's life and production. Some people call it "dumb year" and "widowed year", saying that children born can't speak, and it is easy for their husbands to die young and their wives to be widowed, which is even more far-fetched, and violates the fundamental principle of the theory of Yin-Yang and Five Elements. Widowed for many years, it is said that you can't get married. The traditional feudal thought holds that women who get married this year are easy to get married, divorce or become widows. But with the development of science and technology, young people now believe in science, so they can get married in the year of widowhood, mainly because the feelings between husband and wife can be harmonious and they can run a big family together.

Is there any way to solve it?

Usually, in the year of widowhood, many elders in the family will inform us of some matters to pay attention to in advance. If there is really something important to do in the year of widowhood, there are still several ways to resolve it. The principle of geomantic omen is that the five elements pass through customs and Yin and Yang are enlightened, that is, the five elements circulate prosperously, Yin and Yang are harmonious and safe. Beginning of spring solar terms play an important role in the traditional culture of China. Spring represents vitality and hope, and is a symbol of good luck. Marriage and love is a symbol of carrying on the family line and adding people's mouths. It is natural to be lucky, so there is a saying that you can't get married in a widowed year. Generally, proper geomantic things (such as five lines of gossip's charm) are used to regulate the qi of the town house, so as to promote the energy circulation of the five elements and adjust the balance of the gas field of Yin and Yang. In fact, widowhood has nothing to do with marriage, but with the difference between solar terms and lunar calendar. Many people say that I am widowed and not suitable for marriage, but there is actually no basis, so new people who want to get married this year can tie the knot with confidence.