Why does no one around you trust you?

Yesterday, I listened to Teacher Cai Lixu's Forty Disciples. I was deeply moved to hear that I was trusted.

Because growing up, I was rarely trusted by people around me, and I don't even know why.

As we all know, when you are not trusted, it is really sad.

After listening to Mr. Cai Lixu's lecture, I woke up like a dream.

Teacher Cai Lixu said: When we are not trusted, it is not someone else's fault. We should find the reason from ourselves.

When a person is cold and selfish, never puts himself in the other person's shoes and does nothing for the people around him, then others will definitely not trust you.

Like an old man, if he has many children. And he listens to one of the children most, and this child is definitely the one who is the most filial to him, the most concerned about him, and the most reassuring person.

Therefore, when we are not trusted by the people around us, we need to reflect on ourselves.

After reflecting on myself, I found myself a particularly failed person. Up to now, no one around me trusts me, even my own children.

My bad habit of nagging is because no one around me trusts me. It is difficult to communicate with children every time, and children can only be controlled by nagging.

Think about what I have done in my twenty or thirty years of life. I am really selfish, numb and indifferent inside. I rarely really look at things from the other person's point of view, even children. Therefore, it is normal for children not to trust me.

Not to mention my parents, in-laws, partners, brothers and sisters. Among them, they don't trust me. When I reflect on myself, I find that I care less about them.

When a person is less trusted, it means that the more he fails in life, the more problematic his character is.

On such a thought, Mr. Cai Lixu is right. From our own point of view, we will not trust a cold and selfish person ourselves.

Fortunately, my ancestors accumulated virtues, which enabled me to meet the traditional culture and good knowledge of China.

It is like a mirror, always looking at my bad side, giving me a chance to turn over a new leaf, meet and be a better self.

In the future, I will learn to care more about others, think from each other's standpoint and think for each other. So people will gradually trust me.