In ancient times, parents' orders and matchmakers' words were unavoidable. Why are there forced marriages now? Is this the revival of ancient patriarchy?

Ganglism? If your parents can't be the masters, there are still big heads. Parents have worked hard for most of their lives just to see their children get married. Forced marriage is just a very profound traditional concept. I think it is inevitable to get married and have children at a certain age. If you really don't want to get married, can I still beat you out and send you to each other's home? Just take your time, let nature take its course, and don't care too much about what your parents say. There is no bad heart, just angry words you said in a hurry.