What are the customs of marriage in Shanxi?

Shanxi wedding customs:

A, pre-wedding preparations

1. set the wedding day

2. get a marriage license

3. determine the number of participants in the wedding and the number of tables

4. booking the hotel

5. purchase, fill out the invitation to buy according to the number of people invited to buy even the bride's bought

6. prepare for the wedding couplets (home, bedroom door)

Preparation of large red happy words (including single happy, double happy, big happy, small happy) home door to paste red double happy, bedroom door to paste red double happy, building unit door to paste red double happy, the cell door to paste a pair of red double happy, staircase inside each step on the inside of the paste a pair of small happy; women's home to paste a single happy.

Preparation of flowers (living room, bedroom should be decorated with flowers); preparation of books (after estimating the number of guests, buy the appropriate number, remember to buy a signing pen); preparation of cigarettes (in addition to the wedding day with cigarettes, but also to prepare for the father-in-law to bring cigarettes, to help people prepare the cigarettes, smoke used at home); preparation of wine (the same case as the cigarettes, to prepare for the reception of the family's wine); preparation of drinks; preparation of sugar (in addition to the wedding day sugar, as well as home greetings) Wedding day sugar, and home to greet guests sugar), peanuts, melon seeds, fruit; prepare snacks (to receive relatives with, buy two kinds, one buy four, one buy eight); prepare balloons (wedding car with, the first night of the wedding bride stepped on the use of); prepare ribbons (wedding car); prepare the table guest registration paper (each table one to write down the name).

7. Vehicles to determine

Camera car, a wedding car, a fleet.

8. Personnel to determine

The general manager of a gift room 2 (a bookkeeping, a collection), a master of ceremonies, at least six representatives of the marriage, the hotel in charge of two, a car captain (fleet of cars preferably radio), a gun captain, gunner, a gunner, a video recorder, a photographer, a best man.

9. Two dumpling makers and bed makers (women with both parents, living in-laws, not divorced, and with offspring).

10. Preparation of the night before the wedding meal

11. Arrangements for the wedding car decoration, arrangements for the caravan collection check-in time

12. Determine the route (the night before the wedding)

13. The afternoon before the wedding or the morning of the day sent to the hotel to give the person in charge of the hotel cigarettes, alcohol, sugar, beverages, dried fruits, gift books.

Two, the night before the wedding to the woman's home is responsible for negotiation

Participants in charge, receiving representatives, introducers

Negotiation matters: 1. banquet money (negotiation); 2. pressure box money (negotiation, the general situation of 888 or 1888); 3. open the box money (200); 4. open the door to the money; 5. the age of the money of the false age + 2 (days, land) (one-dollar coins); 6. baggage skin (red) 8, with 20 pins; 7. four-color gift: 2 bottles of wine, 2 cigarettes, 2 boxes of snacks (a four-piece, a eight-piece), 2 packages of sugar (loose sugar with red paper package); 8. ten pounds of pork; 9. red belt 1 (* * * 2 to the bridegroom each bride 1); 10. red handkerchiefs (with the word "happy") 10; 11. five-color line: red, yellow, orchid, green, purple, 1 each; 12. Underwear, underwear, 1 set (tank tops, shorts red); 13, red gloves, 1 pair; 14, red socks, 1 pair; 15, thimbles ten; 16, happy dumplings wide heart noodles (the number of dumplings depends on the bride's age, that is, the bride's age + days + earth + descendants, which descendants of dumplings is a large set of small, set of more best, so the dumplings must be pocket-sized, the noodles must be a wide noodle and can only be a one); 17. . a number of firecrackers; 18. red basin, toothbrush, soap box, mouthwash cup, towel each pair.

Three, the wedding day

1, 6:00 a.m. to put three cannons, paste the word of joy, paste couplets (the first night ready to go)

2, the wedding car, convoys, camera car collection

3, each car red packets, sugar packets, cigarettes, a box.

4, pick up the bride vehicle before the departure of the cannon

5, telephone notification of the woman to pick up the bride car has departed

6, pick up the bride vehicle departure personnel arrangements (pick up the bride on behalf of the representative of the open door money)

7, pick up the bride car to the woman's home to put 3 news cannon (on the way out to consult the woman's views on the ability to put the cannon)

8, pick up the bride caravan back to the man's home to begin to discharge the cannon

9, arranged to receive the representatives of the bride, introducers, the female party to send personnel to rest

Arrangement of 1 table 8 plates (snacks, fruit, cigarettes, peanuts, melon seeds, sugar, tea, etc.) hospitality

10, the bride to change her clothes

11, the ceremony recognition of the camera photography to remember

12, to send friends and relatives to the hotel, the bride and groom to the hotel by the wedding bus

Four, the hotel

1, the person in charge of the hotel and firecrackers with cigarettes, wine to the hotel at about 10:00 a.m.

2, the person in charge of the hotel before the meal, each table set wine, cigarettes, beverages, peanuts, melon seeds, sugar, 1 plate

3, the person in charge of the hotel, peanuts, melon seeds, sugar, 1 plate for the hotel waiters

4, the person responsible for the artillery firecrackers in front of the hotel

5, the newcomer car arrived to firecrackers

6, guests arranged for 10 people per table

7, arranged to send relatives to the private room

8, MC speech

9, parents, the newcomer thanked the guests

10, dinner

11, each table to issue 1 piece of red paper

12, toast to the accompaniment of the guests

5, the number of times and firecrackers

5, the hotel responsible for peanuts and melon melon sugar 1 plate to the hotel waiter

5, firecrackers responsible for the hotel in front of the hotel to set off firecrackers

5, the number of cannon and the number of

1, 1 day before the wedding at 12:00 p.m. to put 3 cannons,

2, 6:00 a.m. on the day of the wedding to put 3 cannons

3, to meet the bride before the departure of the car to set off the cannons. 15 cannons, 5 strings of 1,000 firecrackers

4, to the woman's home to put 3 report cannons, 3 strings of firecrackers

5, to pick up the bride to go home to put 20 cannons 6 strings of firecrackers

6, to the hotel door to put 2 ceremonial firecrackers 10 strings of firecrackers, 20 two-kick

Six, additional instructions

The day before the wedding the bride and groom do not meet, the word of joy pasted on the windows, cabinets, boxes, etc., the female dowry items on the sticker. Accompanying goods to have a quilt, pillowcase, quilt cover, toothbrush and toothpaste and other household goods, but also the bride from inside to outside of the red clothes, prepare a red leather box, which should be put in the accompanying gift list and the bottom of the box money.

On the day of the wedding, the bride to do head to early, after the wedding dress can not get out of bed, feet can not touch the ground, waiting for the arrival of the groom. The groom by squeezing the door (ready to squeeze the door red envelope) into the door after the bouquet to the bride in front of, say good words to try to get her to take the bouquet. When the bride took the bouquet, the groom to start looking for shoes.

Wear good shoes, the bride and groom to recognize the relatives, this time, the groom to call Mom and Dad, to give the groom to change the name of the fee. If the bride has younger siblings also want to change the mouth, the groom to change the mouth fee. Then, the younger siblings for the bride and groom to wear a corsage, bridesmaids and groomsmen wear each other corsages. Then, the bride is photographed with her relatives. The bride's feet are not allowed to step on the ground, and the soles of her feet are covered with red handkerchiefs. Downstairs, the bride's feet can not touch the ground, was held by the groom or back on the float.

Walking on the road, the bridesmaids should take out the handkerchiefs prepared in advance, on the road to meet the bride's team floats, etc. to grab the other side before throwing out the handkerchiefs.

To the man's home, the groom should also carry the bride upstairs. After the bride changed clothes (note: wear to the wedding dress, shoes must be changed, shoes can not be worn later), to open the box. Open the box for the bride's brother or nephew, do not forget to ask for a red envelope Oh, open the box package is very large. After the opening of the box, the dowry items to be read out, and put out the bottom of the box money. At this time, the in-laws to double the bottom of the box money and then put into the box to lock up. Then it is the same as the woman's family to recognize and change the name.

On the way to the hotel, the bridesmaids still have to get their handkerchiefs ready. When you get to the hotel, if there is another family is also organizing the wedding, then the bridesmaids have to get off the car first, with a thimble of red handkerchiefs into the hands of the other bride. Be sure to get ahead of the other side of the joy!