2 "How to listen, children will say, how to listen, children will say" thinking guide.

Nowadays, educating children is the focus of contemporary parents. Because we all know that parents are the guides of children's lives, and the influence of parents' words on children may last for a lifetime. More and more parents are beginning to know that children trained by good family education are better in self-confidence, ability, sense of responsibility and happiness.

But in the information age, many parents don't know how to choose, and sometimes their emotions erupt. After scolding the children, they regret it, feel more distressed for them and blame themselves. Increased the difficulty of being a parent.

I don't know if you have been asking yourself why my child is disobedient, why my child has a bad personality, and why I spent so much money to train this child. Is this child like this?

If you are confused, angry, sad and helpless on the way to raising children, then I suggest you read this book, "How to say, children will listen, how to listen, children will say." You will see a different communication skill, which will make your family understand other people's feelings, not blame and complain, and express anger and irritability in positive language in your family life; Respect each other's needs, let them fall in love and make the people we love happier; Let children become caring, responsible and independent people.

The following two mind maps are the introduction and summary of this book.

How to use it in real life, the book gives many examples, and the natural consequences of different situations give you a deeper understanding.

For example, children say, mom, I'm hot. Mom said, honey, it's very cold. You won't be hot.

Mom, I'm hurt. Such a small wound doesn't hurt.

Parents always give their children the best. Sometimes we hurt our children without knowing it, because we don't know why we hurt them for so long, or we don't know what better way to educate them. Therefore, although our parents are very tired, the repeated appearance of family conflicts consumes their parents' hard work and is not conducive to their growth. Therefore, parents need to constantly learn new educational knowledge and methods, and practice them to achieve better self and help their children grow up healthily and happily.

If you want your child to grow up in a friendly environment and become a caring, responsible and independent person, let's read this book together.