How to correctly recognize and evaluate the connection and difference between Chinese and Western modern ethical thought

This ethical thinking is more complicated, China is concerned about filial piety, the clan as a group unit, while the West seems to have a family type, but more small family type, in the internal relationship, China is concerned about respect for elders, filial piety to elders, which "Shun" is a very important word, means obedience, can not be contrary, can not resist, otherwise it is unfilial, this point is very different from the West, foreign countries seem to be much more loose control of children, more is not filial. Can't go against, can't resist, otherwise it is unfilial, this point and the West is relatively big difference, foreign countries seem to children's discipline looser, more care about the children's own wishes and development, just play a guiding role in it, unlike China, that is a handful of things, of course, this is also advantageous and disadvantageous, and then more is not clear, between the West was also a difference.