What kind of experience is it to have a feudal mother?

I feel that playing with the opposite sex is like having an affair, and my mother will talk about herself. If there is any leakage in her clothes, she will yell at her. In short, there is a concept that feudal mothers are nagged by her all day, and chatting with the opposite sex is like cheating.

Influenced by traditional culture, most parents today still belong to that kind of conservative feudal thought. Moreover, I have a feudal and conservative mother who really can't communicate every day and feels particularly tired.

First, the feudal conservative mother, she can't hide her clothes a little exposed. Just like my mother, she is feudal and conservative. Sometimes if there is a little leak in her clothes, she will yell at herself. She doesn't understand the current fashion, and what's more, she will scold her for wearing a skirt.

Second, parents want their children to live well and find a good home. But in my mother's eyes, I can't have any contact with the opposite sex before I get married. Including holding hands, small fights are not acceptable. Maybe they got married directly when they were in love, and they were particularly tired and puzzled by their feudal thoughts.

Third, every time a feudal mother caught a cold, she would do something out of line, such as setting chopsticks for us with a bowl and mumbling something for blessing. Instead of thinking about taking us to the hospital quickly and taking us to the hospital after finishing the process of her feudal thought.

Adults in the 1960s and 1970s all had some feudal thoughts, but in fact their feudal thoughts were also influenced by the traditional culture of China. Living in such a family has both advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that our parents taught us how to protect ourselves and know how to respect and love ourselves from an early age. However, this mode of getting along is still not good. Every time my mother says that she thinks her mother is meddling and that her mother can't keep up with the trend. If it's not a channel, you can't trust and understand it.