Why Chinese parents don't like to praise their children? Do you think modesty is a virtue?

One reason Chinese parents don't love to praise their children is because the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation is modesty, and most people treat other people with modesty, and treat their children the same way.

In fact, I've hardly ever gotten any praise from my parents since I was a kid, either in front of myself or in front of my friends and family. So my current character is rather introverted, and will be in a state of low self-confidence for a long time, which is due to the consequences of my parents' way of education to bring me. Although we can't say that this kind of education is not good, but we can be sure that this kind of education does have some defects, will give the child in the psychological impact, so that the child appears to be extremely unconfident state.

Two, Chinese parents don't like to praise their children because Chinese parents think more? The reason why Chinese parents don't like to praise their children is because Chinese parents think more often than not that filial children come out from under the stick?

The Chinese parents don't like to praise their children because they think they should not spoil their children too much, which will make them not grow up.

Many Chinese parents think that praising their children will make them proud, but that's not entirely true. Sometimes boasting does make the child proud, but most of the time the child needs more attention and praise from the parents so that the child can grow up healthily. However, Chinese parents are more demanding and may take a more aggressive approach to their children, with strictness becoming the norm. Children raised this way will have certain defects, or at least psychological effects.

Three, I think modesty is a virtue, but in the matter of children's education, modesty is not necessarily a virtue, we need to utilize ways and means to educate their children.

Modesty is indeed a virtue that we should promote. But modesty should also pay attention to certain occasions, we are in the education of children in this matter modesty is not entirely correct, occasionally the child needs to get a certain amount of praise, to be able to encourage him to grow more. For example, we can be appropriate in front of friends and family to boast about their children's achievements, but this scale should be grasped just right, do not be too deliberate, boast as a kind of capital, should be in a humble way to face this matter.