What are the stories of family training and family style in ancient and modern China and abroad?

The ten most famous family precepts are as follows:

1, it's a shame to be poor, and if you are ashamed, you will be poor and have no ambition; Mean is not evil, what is hateful is meanness and incompetence. Peng Yulin

Poverty is not a shame, poverty without ambition is a shame; Low does not make people feel hateful. What is hateful is lowliness but incompetence.

2. The ancients learned official knowledge, and I drove the army alone. Yours is heavy, and my friendship is silent? -Lu Xiangsheng's "Daily Record of Provincial Officials"

The ancients also learned how to be an official, so they constantly enriched themselves, while I was just busy in the army all day. The emperor's kindness is so terrible, how can the courtiers not swear allegiance to the death?

3. The doctor bought a donkey, three books and coupons, and hasn't read a word yet. -Northern Qi Yan Zhitui's "Yan Jiaxun Learning"

Doctor: During the Warring States Period, it was said that people were learned. Qin and Han are official names, and there are 70 doctors in Qin. When Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty placed a doctor in the Five Classics, he generally referred to a bachelor of Confucian scholars. The doctor bought a donkey. Three pieces of paper have been written in the book, but the word donkey has not been written yet. The irony of sour Confucianism is miscellaneous and irrelevant. It is also a metaphor for talking or writing an article. It is better to get to the point than to go around for a long time.

4, get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, clean inside and outside; Have a rest when you feel dizzy. Close the door, you must behave yourself. -"Zhu Jiaxun"

I get up at dawn. Wet the dusty place on the steps with water and sweep the floor with a broom to make the house clean inside and outside. Rest at dusk, close the door before going to bed, and be sure to check yourself.

Today, I am waiting for you, filial at home, loyal to you, humble and kind. -"Jia Changchao's Family Instructions"

Today, I will teach you to be filial to your elders, loyal to your country and the DPRK, courteous to others, and kind to your younger generation.

6, I am a poor family, the world is innocent, and I don't like luxury. -Sima Guang's "Training with Diligence and Health"

I was born in a poor family, and my honest and frugal family style has been passed down from generation to generation as an ancient motto. My personality also advocates simplicity and doesn't like luxury.

7. The beginning of determination is in habit. I am used to smoking, and I am drunk without beer. Its beginning is unprovoked, but its end is meaningless. -Wang Fuzhi's "Showing Grandnephew's Meaning"

The first thing I want to do is to correct and get rid of my bad habits. Bad habits affect life all the time, just as you will get drunk because of alcohol if you don't drink. This bad habit comes and goes without a trace, and there is no sign of beginning or end.

8. Fathers are kind and filial, and brothers, friends and brothers respect each other. -Qing Jiang Yi's Family Instructions for Xiaoyoutang

The father is kind and the children are filial. Brothers love brothers, and brothers respect brothers.

9. Everything is entrusted to you, and you will keep going, so you will get more. -"thousands of books with my nephew"

It is enough to leave everything to God and stick to the right path. Even if the expulsion is rejected by the court, we have got enough spiritually.

10, what's going on in the world? For it, it is easy and difficult; If you don't do it, it's hard for easy people. -Peng Duanshu's "Show your sons and nephews for learning"

Is there a difference between easy and difficult things in the world? If you persist in doing it, the difficult things will become easy. If you don't do it, the easy things will become more difficult. Ten classic family instructions in ancient China are meaningful, understandable and can be used for a lifetime.