The order of meeting the parents

The order in which a man or woman meets his or her parents is mainly based on the wishes of the two people and local traditions and customs, and is not a strict rule, which side of the parents can meet first.

The first thing you need to do is to meet your parents first, so that you can show your respect for them. The first woman to meet the man's parents, can reduce the psychological pressure on the man, usually the prospective parents-in-law will be more critical of the future son-in-law, but the woman will be more likely to get the future mother-in-law's favorite.

A common reason for men to see their parents first:

1, showing respect for women. Generally the woman should first take the man to see their parents, because the man since he wants to marry the woman, must have their own sincerity, first see the woman's parents, but also to show respect for them.

2, traditional customs. In traditional Chinese customs? There is a "hairy son-in-law" to the woman's home to see the future of the law, so many prospective newcomers also respect folklore, in accordance with local "rules" to do.

Two common reasons for women to see their parents first:

1, the man to see the woman's parents more pressure. If a girl in hot love wants to bring her boyfriend home to meet her parents, then the premise is that you have to meet his family first. First of all, for the pre-marriage to meet the parents, the male side than the female side of the pressure will inevitably be more big, and thus the male side can first let his girlfriend to meet their parents.

After the woman has been recognized by the man's parents, at least the man will be accounted for when he meets the woman's parents, to a certain extent, reducing the pressure on the man.

2, the mother-in-law to be more critical of the future son-in-law. After all, the future mother-in-law on the son-in-law will inevitably be more picky, whether it is the man's economic conditions, working conditions, family background and other objective conditions, as well as personality and personality, the mother-in-law will be particularly important. Thus, girls need to sympathize and understand the boyfriend, not too early or too late to let him see your family.