Many people on the Internet say that in-laws try not to spend the New Year together. Why?

Jiaozi, stewed ribs, fried prawns, fried fish ... the whole table. Six people are happy to eat and drink, and their in-laws kindly remind their son to pay attention to some aspects. I loaded the car in the morning and went to my son's house with my wife. After that, everyone is busy together, watching the children and cooking. This is also very interesting! Because she usually lives alone in her son's house (also for the convenience of looking after the children, who have a house in their own city), we usually play there with our granddaughter after lunch.

We should understand what the family is like, and understand that each family has its own different habits and lifestyles, and the ways and means to deal with problems are also very different, and even the starting point is not exactly the same. Being too close can lead to contradictions. Other festivals don't matter, except New Year's Eve, which must be eaten with the old man. In the earlier Qilu land, a married daughter, even an only child, could not go back to her mother's house for dinner at the age of 30, so I suspect that your in-laws are southerners and don't understand northerners.

If two children quarrel, it's okay to have a little conflict. If they divorce each other, most in-laws will turn against each other for the benefit of their children. It's best to keep a certain distance. Even if I want to leave, my in-laws also praise me for my good temper and strong ability to educate my children. I was very picky in middle age, but now when I grow up, I can see through the world. The most important thing is to live in harmony, but this is related to the character and world outlook of both parents-in-law. I can cite a few real examples around me to illustrate that the biggest beneficiaries of in-laws' New Year greetings are not only their parents, but also their parents' expectations for the Spring Festival reunion, which deepens the feelings of the two children, reduces the burden and contradictions, and makes their lives in by going up one flight of stairs prosperous.

The dinner was very lively, and everyone began to work together in Qi Xin, especially the two male in-laws, who are usually the rotor army at home. The two of them are better at cooking than anyone else. The key is whose food is the most popular.